looking for Central PA pre or recent post op pen pal

Hi, my name is Beth & I'm about to meet with the surgeon for a "date". I am hoping to find someone in the region to pen pal with - just to keep my jitters to a minimum . I'm a 31 year old married, mom of two, working full time in the Harrisburg region. My weight is killing my body and busy life and this surgery/recovery is going to take a chunk of time. I know my husband, while loving and supportive , doesn't realize the gravity of what is about to happen . So, if there are others like me...and I know you're out there...drop me an email. I'd greatly appreciate it! Thanks so much! Beth