Looking for a penpal

Looking for a penpal, i am from ks, has surgery about 7 years ago in SC never reached goal weight missed it by 25lbs and now have gained 20 more,  need someone to talk with for a reality ck and support. 

hi..im from chicago..im goin for surgary of lapband on 11/20. all im reading on here is bad stuff..why is that

For some reason people who do very well with there wls tend not to post that, but us that fail or struggle do, mostly for support and understanding and to know we are not alone

Im just getting home form having the Gastric Sleeve and am two weeks out from it. I have already made big changes in my life have lost almost 30 lbs!!! so sorry that you are re-thinking your decision... go for it, and it kind of looks like that all the bad stuff is being written on here, im trying to find a good support group so that i can stay on track, and not gain all the weight back. let me know if you go through with the surgery... im excited foryou, even though i don't know you.

so i guess this is not an option for me, sorry that is so.

If u are on Facebook I have a group called Bariatric long-timers