Looking for a friendand Pen Pal

i am from NJ name is Krissy. I just went for my consultation for suregery yesterday. theytold me that i have to follow with my gp for 3 months and get testing done. So i am looking at March for suregry. I hate waiting. I am so desperate for this surgery. My life is isolation and embarrasment being overweight i am only 4'8 and 238 lbs. So they told me i am 148 lbs overweight. I am a single m om and ni man in my life becasue men dont want fat chicks i am learning from online dating. Its the holidays and no man. It sucks i suffer from depresssion anyway so being alone makes it worse. I am looking to chat with friends and looking for support from all this so if u want to chat please leave a message so we could chat.. take Care all !!!

Hi, I'm Katina in VA. I haven't had my surgery yet but meet with my surgeon January 5, 2012. My BFF had her RNY done by him and I went to talk with him on one of her visits. He's amazing, and down to earth. Please don't give up!! I don't know what site your using but I have no problem with getting attention from the men. Alot of it is how you feel about yourself and your confidence. I would love to chat more with you. Happy Holidays and I'm sure things will get better!!!!

Hi Krissy...I'm Doug from Texas...good luck with you surg...my advice is when you have your pshc eveal..tell them everything about you. I have learned that this Journey is 90% mental. It really takes alot...I had the RNY 7 months ago and have lost 179 lbs so it can be done...Ill take to you anytime about it...also a good listner