looking for penpal at the jersey shore

I'm 44yrs young,married with a 10yr old daughter.i had mgb on 3/11.would love to lose 80-100lbs!!!,All my girlfriends are skinny and I would love to chat and make some friends that understand the struggles and triumphs we weight loss surgery gals have to deal with .So if you're like minded with a quick wit and a wicked sense of humor i would love to be friends and support each other.and if you're in my area I would love a work out buddy too :) apparently my skinny friends don't need to work out either !!!!  Lynn