Penpal in VA

Looking for a penpal, that text, write, email.  Be nice to have someone that sorta in a position like me,  I"m pre-op,I"m border line diabets, have pcos. I have to see the dr month to month for a year for the insurance purpose, right now I"m on 4th month.  My marriage is okay, my hubby is over weight, he got cancer.  We do have a good marriage but i"m in my stage of changing, what to get healthy, loose weight and start motivating,  Right now we don't do much, hardly of anything really.  But right now I"m forcusing on "ME".......