need a penpal to talk to

Hi my name is Lucee and i am 39.  I had my gastric bypass on July 25,2008 and have lost 136 pounds.  I have had many deaths in the family and have gone through a bad depression so my weight loss has stopped.  I need someone to help me kick start it again and who will keep me motivated to continue.  I NEED to loose weight to get back surgery and I still weigh 355 or so.  thank you

Hi Lucee,

I am so sorry to hear about the death's in your family.  That has to be hard no matter who you are.  I can imagine that it would have an effect on your weight loss.  I dont know if I am much motivation but I am a good listener. 

I am having my surgery on the 27th and I am really looking forward to it. 

keep your chin up. 

Erika 

Hello Lucee, My name is Reba. I'm really  sorry to hear about the family you've lost. Losing a loved one is always difficult & what you're feeling is natural. So don't be too hard on you're self. You're going through some tough things right now. Give your body & heart time to heal.  I'm new here so I'm not sure if you'll even get this msg.  I hope you do because I want you to know that  I'd be happy to be your penpal. I'm 48yrs old, 5ft tall & 205lbs. So i'm almost as wide as I am tall :# . I've only just today started reading about the choices for surgery so I'm not sure what I shoud do yet.   I check this forum at least once a day, sometimes more, so I'm here if you need a listening ear.