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Bonnibj
on 11/1/09 10:00 am - Augusta, GA
Topic: RE: I Know my fibro sisters will understand

So sorry you are feeling so bad.   Seems this time of year is when things really start flairing up for me too.  I guess it is the cold and damp weather.  I know we need the rain, but it really makes me ache.  

I have gotten to where I just don't say anything to my husband.  He is so nice and tries to understand but I don't want to seem like a constant whiner.  Sometimes it takes me 3 warm baths a night to get to where I can sleep.  

My PCP has been changed and I have to wait until the 24th to see him for the first time.   My last PCP had pretty much given up on me and the last time I was there, she said that she had sent me to all the specialists she could think of and that there was little else she could do unless it was the normal PCP stuff.

Most of the specialists have passed me on to someone else.  My rheumatologist is the end of the line and he tries to help, but just hasn't gotten the combination right yet.   I go to a pain specialist who says he can only do so much and that when I get a really bad flair I should see the rheumatologist.

I feel like I am in a never ending circle, going round and round and round and never getting anywhere.

Hope you get to feeling better soon.    I'm looking forward to my warm bath tonight (already).

Bonnie

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Hislady
on 11/1/09 8:18 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Need Ideas for Excersise
My doc always suggests water workouts, but that's not real easy when the nearest pool is 20 miles away. I have a recumbent stationary bike that I use and it helps . The hardest part is finding the happy medium between too much (soreness) and not enough exercise. Good luck with your upcoming surgery!!
Karil G.
on 11/1/09 1:04 am - IL
Topic: Need Ideas for Excersise
Hi Everyone,

My surgery is in 9 days!  I was wondering what types of excersises peopole have found good.
Any DVD routines too would be helpful.
Hints, suggestions, what works, what doesn't...
thanks!!!
 
            
(deactivated member)
on 10/31/09 11:38 pm
Topic: RE: I Know my fibro sisters will understand
I totally understand.  Today is a very bad day for me.  And as much as the family tries to understand, I know they don't.  I know that I'm stubborn too and keep my feeling to myself too much, until I can't take it anymore and breakdown.  I don't ask for help, when I know I should.  I try not to complain about the pain.  I haven't been officially diagnosed yet, so I'm not on any medication.  I'm hoping to get relief when I go back to the doc.



Hislady
on 10/31/09 1:29 pm - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: I Know my fibro sisters will understand
Oh we all hear ya! It seems like everytime I get to a point where meds pretty well keep most of the pain down it only lasts a few weeks and then it starts all over again. My PCP (who used to be good about upping my doses) is getting more hesitant to give me more or a different drug. Seems like he wants me to rely more on life style changes, well I already do all that, stretching and mild exercise. I may have to go back to the expensive pain specialist cause since I broke my leg last summer it seems like my fibro is just out of control. I know we all get so tired of hurting and I just pray someday there'll be a cure. All I can say is we are so much stronger and tougher than anyone else realizes!
cinnamongirl
on 10/31/09 8:47 am - Easton, PA
Topic: RE: I Know my fibro sisters will understand
I really feel your "pain" too because I have this wonderful disease. There are times when I really try not to complain because there's just not enough hours in the day to explain what hurts , so when things get really bad and I do complain my family acts like I'm speaking another language. They treat it as if though "oh well it's just another day for mom " and they just go on with their lives. No "hey mom can we give you a hand , can we get anything for you , would you like a heating pad or anything to make me feel like anyone understands ?" Then I step back for a minute and realize that unless you suffer from this disease , no one can truly understand what we go through or what living with constant pain is like. I thank God none of them have to know either .

hello ladies and HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO YOU ALL !

Now with this being our day , I have a question that maybe you other post-op ladies can help me with. I'm a 3 yr out girl and have lost 140 lbs (give or take 10lbs here or there) but within the last year (here's where you guys might want to close your eyes or turn away) I've been plagued every month ot two like clockwork with yeast infections. At first as all you ladies know they were bothersome but now their getting horrific ! I'm starting to beleive with the weightloss and all the extra skin on my thigh area , there's not enough room for proper air flow and it's become a breeding ground for these infections ! I've always been extremely body consious and am still to this day , I shower daily so it's not from being dirty or anything like that. Has anyone else been botherd by this problem ? My doctor has said I may have to have that skin removed and I just want to see if this is a common problem ?

Karil G.
on 10/31/09 7:42 am - IL
Topic: RE: Pre Surgery Diet/Meds
Hi OG

Thanks for you advice.  Actually, i called the office yesterday and told them i was desperate for some relief.  The doctor did approve the tramadol for me now, even though i only get somewhat relief from it.  i didn't think it was an NSAID either, so not sure what the problem was, unless it enlarges the liver?

thanks again
 
            
MainePam
on 10/31/09 6:10 am - Bucksport, ME
Topic: I Know my fibro sisters will understand
Today my niece ( on crutches) my hus and me riding a cart at walmart went shopping. My hus hurt his shoulder just pulled a muscle last night. I HURT every where my bone to bone arm, neck and shoulders and my Fibro. My hus complained all through the store ooooooooooooooo I don't know if I can pick that up.....
I finally said gee I wish I just had 1 thing hurting I could deal with that instead of .........................................
People just don't imagine that we hurt as bad as we do. i swear if they had what we did they'd  be sitting in the corner groaning 24/7.
OregonGal
on 10/31/09 4:51 am - Beaverton, OR
Topic: RE: Pre Surgery Diet/Meds
Hi, I don't understand, either, why you would have to be off the Tramadol, as it's not an NSAID.  I'm 4 years out post-op and have been taking Tramadol 3x a day almost a year now. It only takes the edge off the fibro pain for me, but is better than the Neurontin side effects of drowsiness.  I have been taking Cymbalta about 3 months, but can't say it gives me any pain relief, though maybe helps me cope a little better with the pain.  Following RNY, we're also told that we are supposed to avoid extended relief meds, which Cymbalta is, due to the malabsorption factor and the med working it's way too quickly thru the system.  What do we do??  If I were you, I would force the issue about you needing to stay on the Tramadol, especially if it's helping you, and it not being an NSAID.
Email me if you have more questions and wishing you the best on your upcoming day!

Karil G.
on 10/31/09 1:50 am - IL
Topic: RE: Just checking in How is everyone

Kristy,
I believe you did give a bible lesson.

            
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