I NEED HELP!!!!!

I have had all of my test done and completed, except for the Theripist evaluation. The lady Im working with is not doing, what I think, she supposed to be doing. She doesnt talk to me about my surgery but my problem....I have a shrink for that! Becausse Im having problems with my husband, to be blunt he's a cheater, lier and a gambler, ok so thats his problem not mine. I have already decided and have done so with removing him from the house , now why should he be able to take my surgery away from me ? I have three children and I can hardly walk without pain in my feet and back. I need to be healthy for them and myself, please everyone I need some help, is this lady right? Should I go some where else? Can anyone refer a good theripist in Ca, bayarea location? Thank you in advance for all of your support! Kara

Tracy she may be talking to you about your problems with him because of the issue of non support from him will be affecting you. Have you asked her about it? Since you're already seeing someone about these issues it sounds like you're already covering everything so she should just be able to concentrate on seeing you're ready to go forward towards WLS. If she seems to just be trying to add more visits=more pay, then you might need to look for another theripist to get you what you need. You might want to post this question on the California board! Best of luck to you!! Lulu