I used to be the thin one.

Is there a support group for friends of people who have had the weight loss surgery and now are wearing the clothes they used to wear?  I am so happy for them but I feel bad about not being thin.  I really only need to lose 20 to 30lbs.  And after seeing my friends lose approx. 150 each.  It makes me feel bad about myself.

If I felt bad about myself, I would do everything in my power to change it. Diet, exercise, new hair-do, maybe even get my toe nails done. Change is scary, yet wonderful.