I have colon cancer

bigtonr65
on 8/28/08 8:24 am - Albuquerque, NM
Or a Cancerous Rectal Tumor… Now, I don’t post very often. I tend to be one of “ Tinks Peekers,   “ I love saying that , so I hope this doesn’t seem too selfish of me, posting when I’ve got trouble, but…There are a lot of caring folks on this board who I know will indulge me. That said, I’m very fortunate to have a solid support system, from my immediate family and friends to my extended family, in-laws etc. Still, the more I talk about it, the better I seem to feel.   Back at the beginning of August I had a blood draw for my two year post op checkup with my DS Surgeon. About four hours later he called me from California, on a Saturday, and told me to get my ass to an Emergency Room ASAP. Turns out my hemoglobin level was a 4.75. A guy like me should have levels between 14 and 17. So six hours and two units of whole blood later I was sent home with a referral for an infusion center and a GI Doc.   It was funny, at every turn I was told that my anemia was “ Most probably caused by your WLS” which was always followed up by “Make sure you get a Colonoscopy just in case” Well, just in case ruled the day, and on Monday I was told I have Colon cancer. Another Doc has said because of where it’s at it can be considered a rectal tumor. The only difference twixt the two is the treatment regiment.   Anyway, all the crying was done on Monday, now it’s time to look this mother ****** in the eye and beat it down. I’ve never been more sure of anything in my life. It shouldn’t be too long now before I’m sharing my survivor story with everyone. Thanks to all of you *****ad this for letting beat it with a stick ONE more time…   BigTone

BTW
  R.I.P " Ladybug " Val. You meant so much to so many of us in group. You always answered all our questions, even if it was the third or fourth meeting in a row  that someone would ask. I loved the fact that the cat never had your tounge, and if you were thinking it, you were just seconds away from saying it . Godspeed and rest well friend, your pains and troubles are behind you 

Linda M
on 8/28/08 9:17 am - Kailua, HI
Tony,

I don't post often, however I do peek at the posts.  I always read Rhonda's daily ones and the prayer/good thought requests.  I want you to know that I will be praying for you all the way over here in Hawaii and if you don't mind sharing your last name with me I will add you on to my church prayer list.  Please keep us updated and know that prayer does work!

Aloha,

Linda
bigtonr65
on 8/28/08 1:02 pm - Albuquerque, NM
Thank you Linda, my last name is Ruiz

liz A.
on 8/28/08 9:19 am
I am soooo sorry to hear that tony!!!  

show this thing who is boss....like we know you are....& kick its freaking arse.
thinking of you (& your fam)

Kel
xoxoxo


p.s.  sidenote....sorry, but I find it slightly "amusing"....perhaps distrubing is a better word, or perhaps frustrating...that so many are quick to put any ailment as a result  of wls.   but I digress.

p.p.s   nice usage of twixt.   
(it took me 10 min to find that freaking wink face.  geesh.)


chocolate, chocolate, chocolate!  ACK!  
                                    -liz lemon

bigtonr65
on 8/28/08 1:04 pm - Albuquerque, NM
Well, you know how down down I am with my ole tymey english...

Greg H.
on 8/28/08 10:11 am - Marysville, OH
Tony,  you may not remember me, but I'm sure you will my wife Julie.  She is on here all the time.

Our prayers are with you and your family.  It sounds as if you have one of the most effective weapons against this ******* on your side already and that is the determined and unrelenting will to fight it.  Good for you friend.  Good for you.  I look forward to reading all about your victory.

Stay strong.

Greg.
bigtonr65
on 8/28/08 1:05 pm - Albuquerque, NM
Greg and Julie, thank you both for your good thoughts, I need 'em, and I'll use 'em

Julie H.
on 8/28/08 10:25 am - Marysville, OH
Tony,

Words are hard to say at a time like this. 

Just know that I will be keeping you and your beautiful wife and son in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless you my friend....

Love and Hugs
Julie
RHONDA FROM KY
on 8/28/08 1:26 pm - ALEXANDRIA, KY
I replied to you on the Sexy Board dear.. 

Know that you have soo many praying for ya.. and who will be here (or there if I need be) when (not if) you need us.. cuz you will!!  Everyone needs loving and supportive friends to get us through the hard times.  So here we are

It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end.  ~Ursula K. LeGuin

LadiBug
on 8/28/08 3:30 pm - Albuquerqe, NM

 Well said.....all I have to say is "ditto" to....
"Anyway, all the crying was done on Monday, now it’s time to look this mother ****** in the eye and beat it down. I’ve never been more sure of anything in my life. It shouldn’t be too long now before I’m sharing my survivor story with everyone. Thanks to all of you *****ad this for letting beat it with a stick ONE more time… "

Kisses  to you, mi amor.

You know I love you more than  this much,
Your ol' Lady

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