Observation..

Just curious .. I notice that when I do not post A DAY AT A TIME.. there seems to be more POSTS on this board.. than when I do. I have no problem NOT posting this thread.. if it makes people *uncomfortable* . Heck I already post it on other Boards.. so it can be read by those who want to read it there.. would people who lurk here.. who want to participate here.. rather I not post it I would just like more participation and don't want to *religion* people away if that's the case. Thanks.. for any honest feedback

Rhonda I enjoy your posts. I think we all need little sayings like that to get us through some days. Hugs Julie

Thanks for the input Julie.. I think it's just a little harder here.. cuz I don't see the VIEWS like the other boards get. If I see people at least *viewing* it.. I know it's worth putting out here. I don't expect responses on them.. just for people to take what they want from them.. or maybe like YOU said.. it helps get thru the day. I just noticed like I said.. when I hadn't posted them for a few days.. others where posting.. so I didn't know if that meant anything. Probably not.. I do know that if someone is not *spiritual or religious* they don't have to open the post. Guess I'll continue.. unless I get some negative feedback here.. so speak up now.. or forever hold you peace hugsss Julie miss you..

I kinda doubt the spiritual threads are the cause of the board being reaaaally slow. I think we need new blood. Too many of us (like me) aren't as obsessed with the surgery -- and how to be a good patient -- as we used to be. Instead we are dealing with engagements and weddings and deaths and work and births and... ...you get the idea. I am not sure what the solution is, alas. Except to keep posting. If there aren't new posts, a new person may pop in, and say "well THIS board is dead" and then move on.

as someone use to say.. TRUE DAT I guess we can go advertise the site more.. like when I tried to pimp out Kellee and Tina.. only keep it cleaner this time around Also.. would be nice if people would *open up* a little more.. instead of the usual.. "hi I'm fine.. how are you".. "fine".. and that's about it posts.. which doesn't leave much for indepth conversation. I will also try to open up more.. altho I know that I usually put my life story out here.. I tend to be an open book. but probably have been more conservative lately. well I know I posted this the other day on the sexy board.. but will share it here.. this happened to me Monday (holiday).. I'm very over it now.. but didn't like the feeling it gave me at the time I read the email from him. Okay.. so I was kinda seeing a guy (just a few dates..) but felt it was not the right one.. so this morning I log onto IM.. and received this message.. and responded. One reason (I felt this way) is I thought if a person that one is dating would go away for days.. holiday weekend.. it may be nice to at least inform the other person so they know not to expect a phone call or IM or email from them.. and that they would be home on such and such date and then schedule a date. But NOOOoooo.. and there were just other RED FLAGS.. David (5/26/2008 7:27:32 AM): Good morning.....I didn't forget about you...I have been in Columbus IN the past few days....can we get together soon? David Rhonda (5/26/2008 10:21:32 AM): Good Morning David.. I'm sorry but I don't believe I want to continue.. I find you to be a handsome and nice gentleman, but I just don't think I'm feeling anything long term here. We just don't seem to connect in all aspects. I'm sorry. and then.. I received this EMAIL from HIM... Good morning to you as well Rhonda.....I got your IM....and I agree with you completely....I knew this after I gave you the freud test......You are a Cat Person. Cat persons are generally dirty, aloof, selfish, and self centered, and are prone to certain addictions.......not to mention ceap. I sincerely hope you find what you are looking for..... PS...any further emails from you will be reported as spam... ________________________________ sooo.. some people still have growing up issues and are mean and vindictive.. boy am I blessed to get out of THAT.. now.. if I disappear.. REPORT THIS.. and I just deleted him from my IM. And now I feel as if I need a long hot shower... ewww creep. sooo.. I didn't respond back.. and find it humorous now just can't imagine a person needing to be that spiteful because they are not in *control* of the situation.. and that's how I interpretted his words.. any other takes..

Why oh why oh why can't we use HUGE fonts here?!?!? ... because all I can think of to say about the guy is a HUGE font of... WTF??????

i know.. ASSHOLE.. ooppss I forget that this BOARD is NOT Adult protected.. but it's okay.. cuz no one comes in here anyways.

Ew! I agree with Maria! That's just completely screwed up! Glad you've moved on with the situation, Rhonda!

thanks katie-bug.. you got any ew stories.. you wanna share.

Hiya See-ster! Good thing you got rid of this guy! But you know.....I think I went out with him. I went out with someone that said I was a Dog Person. No....wait a minute.....he didn't say I was a Dog Person......he said I was a *****