Moody Monday

What has (or has the potential to have) your panties in a bunch today? ME: I am actually doing ok so far today (it is all of 11:00am though)... but I can see getting upset if the kids mess up the house I am cleaning. And if hubby (who has a day off) spends all FRIGGIN day (again) playing games on his computer, I might have to scream. .

Well my best friend and her husband are having marital problems. She wont call me to talk about it but he does because he does not know what else to do. Her and I have been best friends since 3rd grade so Im a little hurt she does not want to talk to me but I know I cannot make it so I am waiting

this isn't the one that you just were in the wedding was it??? ugh.....i am sorry that your friend won't reach out....am sure she may be embarrased to talk but she should know she can come to you for sure....

yep this is the one that i was just in her wedding in oct. its hard not to take it personally. but im just giving her, her space

oh i am so sorry that they are having problems already...i mean man we all are not perfect and nate and i even argue over the phone but the battle is working it out....and we always do....we are different human beings but love each other for our differences......i would be like you and have a hard time not taking it personally too.....but am sure she is embarrased to talk to you about something that is hard for her.....are you thinking about reaching out if it goes on too much longer? it would drive me nuts and i would do it.....but do what you must...i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers....

ive tried to reach out. i called her last night again and left a message. i sent her a card. it is frustrating because her husband calls me(i introduced them) and he does not know what to do. im out of ideas

oh wow.....i am so sorry......i would have done the same thing...called, card, etc....is it a horrible horrible thing that would cause her to run from those that love her?

i know. i just cannot imagine why she is doing this

me neither....but balls in her court.....how is her hubby holding out? has he told her that you are trying to reach her and you are concerned? how long has it been since the distant started?

Hubby not doing so well. He just is frustrated and does not know what to do. He has told her to call me and that I am concerned. The distance started well not sure when i think last month when he got transfered tp different state with his job. They both knew it was coming but now she does not want to go. She has told me how much she hates the place they are living now. I think she is just scared about change