Wow/Worry Wednesday

(Again, stealing from another board where they have a topic du jour.) The answers can be big or small... important or inconsequential... ME: Wow: I just spelled "inconsequential" correctly, above. Anyone that knows me, knows this is a big deal. Worry: I have to pick one? Money.... wanting to get pg again... eating too much... money.... food.... messy house.... obsessing over every Daniel sneeze.... money.... eating candy.... (Did I mention anything having to do with money or food?) .

WOW::: Maria posted 2 days in a row.. (just kidding). My wow: I already have half of my water goal in for the day! Worry: I worry that I will not know when I am in labor. Had contractions last night and yet I wasnt worried THEN.. Weird. I worry that the buyers of our old house will back out at any time.. (happened 2X already). I worry about being a mom to two.. when I just got used to one.

#1: Yeah... no kidding. #2: I haven't gotten a day's water in during the past week! (Meaning, I haven't drank enough water in a week to meet 1-day's goal.) #3: You're kidding right? You've had a baby before! You'll KNOW when you are in labor!! Braxton Hicks... Braxton Hicks... Didn't know you sold your house and moved. Mallory will be your little helper.

I never went into labor on my own with Mallory. They gave me pitocin in the hospital to bring on the contractions.. soon after, I got the epidural.. so I really never felt them come naturally. We put our house on the market in October.. it finally got a trustworthy "bite" in January. We moved in December (3rd).. and have had 2 mortgages.

Ooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Well, I had a couple of "real" contractions the day I was hospitalized with the babies (which was 5 days before they were born). Apparently they weren't even considered strong. Yikes. You'll know. .

wow: I am wearing jewelry (anyone who knows ME knows thats a big deal) worry: that I am not terribly worried about anything today. (man thats nice)

WOW.. i think it'll *** later.. WORRY.. i best not answer today.. I'm feeling kinda melancholy and it may not be a good time to respond it will be out of haste.. i am some worried about my messy house too tho.. that SUCKS.. and my mom wants to come visit.. I told her NO.. I don't want her to see my messy house.. so of course she really wants to see it now.. and my uncle is still in the hospital.. and I'm just *anxious* today

Cute baby!! (had to share) Okay...hmm. Wow: I'm one year and one day out from my RNY. Still can't believe how different my life is today compared to just last year. Worry: My wedding will be disappointing to someone because I'm stressing over every single detail. Oy.. ~Kat

Thanks for the cute baby comment. Do NOT (repeat) do NOT make yourself insane about the wedding. Yes, you want everyone to be happy... but there is no way that is possible. Remember these two things: (1) Something WILL go wrong. And it will just end up being part of your Story. How boring would it be to say "It was just a wedding... it went well." ? (2) The only thing that is actually important is that you are married at the end of the day. Really. I know things like food and color schemes FEEL really important right now... but they aren't. .

I know I know. At the end of the day, we'll be married and that's all that matters. But this is the next "biggest day of our lives" we have, probably next to having a baby and buying our own place. I've finally backed off a little and let my mom and grandmother step up and start collecting information and prices at least.