Ok just how much more can I take

I am telling you when it rains it pours around here!! Damn it I need a vacation!! Well a few days ago I told you about the situation with my daughter well I was skeeming in ways to get rid of the said car and well as would have it, it took care of it itself.... Not the way I was hoping it would just "go away" but my daughther had a car wreck last night well at 4:15pm she/and baby are FINE or will be she is pretty sore and stiff but will be fine the car not so much it was totalled. The weather conditions were kinda rainy and foggy she was following two other cars on a two lane hi-way and the two cars decided to stop to make a left hand turn and because of the weather didn't see the cars in time so to avoid hitting them she took the shoulder and went around well (as people so like to do) as would have it there was another vehicle coming in the opposite direction and was making a left turn and turned right in front of her and they hit head on. The way things are looking is that it is going to look like it is her fault... not sure on that yet. Well now the car is gone and I don't have to worry about that but there is the expense that is tied to that. Yes she did have insurance and hopefully they will take care of most of it but I don't know yet. Time will tell. In reading some of the comments that people left about the story it sounds like that corner has been a problem area before so I am NOT happy about this but like I told her she is not replaceable her car is. Not so sure how soon that will happen. I am just thankful for airbags, seatbelts and the big man upstairs!! It was a slow news day for my local paper and it made the front page so if you'd like to read about it and see a pic go to.... www.wctrib.com and scroll down hers is the green car OK vent over

Good lord Barb..... You and I may have had our differences in the past over stupid **** that has to do with a bunch of bull**** hearsay, but I will keep you and your daughter and baby belly in my thoughts & prayers. Be grateful, it could have been way worse. Liz

Thank you so much Lizzie you don't know just how much it means to me!! You are right it could have been so much worse!! That is why I am soooo greatful!! You are right we have had our differences in the past but I am willing to let by gones be by gones *extends hand... friends?*

Good grief sweetie... hopefully you are gonna get a break from all this soon....

You ain't a kidding! You know my mom use to always tell me when I was being a little ****"you will be paid back when you are a parent" well the way I see it I am definately paid back and I am oweing her money! as a true minnesotan would say "uff dah" enoughs enough!!

Ya know what? It all comes around. I bet things will be good. Thank goodness everyone is healthy! That would really suck if she got hurt. Everything else will work itself out. Ya know we do what we can for our rugrats then we have to make ourselves step aside and let life kick the crap out of them. My oldest son was a pain in the ass to raise and I knew life was gonna have to knock the crap outta him but I also knew I had to "step aside" and let things take their course so to speak. We are presently speakin again after about 2 years and he has had his eyes opened by life in general. It took a lot of prayin on my part and resesting the urge to keep my mouth shut. Freakin kids are a pain. Keep your sanity girl and let the world deal with it. Hugs and sloppy kisses Sparky

You know Sparky that is the ****s of it all... I KNOW things will be OK but I am having a hard time grasping WHY all this crap is happening to us and why now??? Like I always say... everything happens for a reason but what the hell is the reason for the last few months??? I know we teach our kids the best that we can and hope for the best that they will make good choices but I am a giver and a care taker and yeah it is just me! I am glad to hear that you and your son are finally talking again. Time heals all wounds!! Thanks for the encouraging words! Barb

sorry Barb.. not much else to say except I'll continue to keep you and she in my prayers.. also you may want to repeat the below now and then.. it means alot to me http://www.cptryon.org/prayer/special/serenity.html

WOW.....sorry to hear about that and thankfully your daughter and grandbaby are okay.....THANK GOD.....I will continue to keep you in my prayers and thoughts.....we have to be patient and find out at the appropriate time (not always our time) to find out why things happen.....it is all for a reason.....now we have to pray that the relationship with your daughter and her bf either gets better or dissolves.... Take care!

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers...... Love and Hugs Julie and Greg