VD

part of my new years resolution (cause I'm a work in progress....*cough*) is to put an positive spin on things. (I have been known to be too hard on myself, as some of you who know me better already know) sooooooooo.... yesterday I made a reservation at melting pot for valentines day. now I just need the + guest.

I like that a work in progress.....I think you and I are on the same page....I wish I had confidence in myself.......I am proud of you that is a big step......I am sure there are many Men that would like to be your date......you (me too) ....just have to put yourself out there and take a chance....Let me know how it goes...

I went on a date the other week actually, thought things went well, but havent heard from him. oh well. NEXT!! *snaps*

That happens sometimes.......but like you said there is always the next one.....

Yep, Kell - sometimes they are just plain couleros [Spanish for the a.h. word]. I went on three or four dates with this guy. LAST date he takes me out to dinner. Every five minutes [no exaggeration] his cell phone goes off and he ANSWERS it and he TALKS to this woman. Finally, after the third or fourth call, he says "it's my ex girlfriend. she wants me back." My view was either (a) the deceased wife had no clue she was dead or (b) the ex galpal did not know she was EX. When the guy is attempting to kiss me good night, the damn phone goes off again. I tell him "you better get that" and push him out the door. needless to say, it was a LAST DATE. this year is going to be so much better, eh?

Right on Kel Whenst I was single I made it a point to have a reservation somewhere for Valentines Day, cause you just never know. And if I didn't have a special somebody, it would promt me to ask someone out who I might otherwise not, and I can't ever remember having a bad time . None of them turned into the happily ever after thing, but at the verry least it was a reminder, for me, of why being with someone, THE RIGHT SOMEONE , was important for me. Having said that, last year Martina and I were still a pretty new couple, and like allways, I had a reservation made and a night planned out, I had sent her flowers at work y todo. The week leading up to VD she was non commited about plans, saying she really didn't want to do anything, and I thought she was starting to give me the brush off. To make a short story long, she came over to the house and that was the night I found that she was preggers . Anywho, make your plans, and have fun with it

actually my friends & I go every year to the melting pot for VD. I think it would be funny if I met someone before VD & he asked me to do something & I could say "ohhhhh, I cant, I have plans already." that would be funny to me.

Whoops, I gotta remember to check and see who's logged in 'fore I start posting

omg that was cute....i thought...omg a new face on here and she looks like chooch's mom martina needs to come and post more often..... btw, with all of these wedding bells going on this year...when is yours?

Hello Ann !!! The Bells are gonna ring twice for us this year . We're trying to get set up so that Martina doesen't have to go back to work. She has a line on something part time working for a freind who owns his own buisness. If that goes thru, we'll have to do a quicky JP thing, for insurance purposes. Then we'll do a Church sanctioned wedding in the spring or summer.