I miss the Singles Board....
I REALLY miss the Singles Board.
Although I LOVE the people here.....there are a few people over there that I just MISS... but I really don't feel welcome over there.
It's really sad....that we all became so divided. The Singles Board is where we all met....It's where I met Kevin.... It really has made me a different person. In a good way
I guess with this big of a group, there will be conflicts....
But I do check in over there every so often.
I do to at times Jen.. it's sad that it came to this..and I figure that I'm partially to "blame" for that.. I know some didn't like what was said.. and didn't feel comfortable there.. but then some don't post here now anyways
sometimes.. I wonder if I should follow a STEP.. and let go of resentment
I don't want to abandon this.. I see that many don't post there so "assume" (and you know where that gets me) that many are probably back in a yahoo group talking or just PMing.. which really don't mean squat to me.. just an observation
not sure.. I know on the sexy board.. when someone says something out of line.. they tell 'em off .. and just continue.. move on. Altho I notice that some don't post too often there either anymore
what to do
I check there also.. along with the addictions board.. and the sexy board.. I FORGOT THAT BECKY SAID THAT THERE IS AN EBAY BOARD HERE.. I need to go stalk it..
love ya and I'll post to YOU were ever you are
My problem over 'there' started long before anything happened with you.
No one is to blame..... but it just sucks that people get into a relationship, find happiness, and they are no longer welcome.
The Singles Board brought strays in.....people dropped by and posted their "Singles Want Ads"....which made me giggle....cause I think thats how I started. LOL But nobody just drops by the Family & Friends Board.....
So, I guess we are STUCK with each other..... no more newbies.
Awwww Jen Contact the people that you really miss and if you don't feel welcome on the Singles Board tell the people you miss them and you want them to stop by this board and say hello to you or send them a private e-mail.
I think we all have good memories of that board I started there too but way to much drama and over here, it's laid back, peaceful, caring, funny (very funny) and if we left here Rhonda would be getting the blood hounds out to search for us (you would search for us....wouldn't you pookie??
It's human nature for people to have difference..it's only when attacks become personal or crap is talked about when really it's none of anyone's business. This board gives us an outlet for support and encouragement we have all been blessed to also find friendships..but, we need to respect those friendships and treat them kindly because they can be gone as quickly as people moving to another board......
Have a good week-end Jen we are glad you are here!!!
Hugs.
Barb
I LOVE you, Barb!!!
You are always sooo sweet.
Unfortunately, for me, I have my Dad's Italian attitude..... I have been trying to work on it for a long time....but most of the time.....it prevails. LOL I have had contact with a couple people.
I am glad to see that so many of us are still in contact.
This place motivates me daily!