Make the crying stop

mandy2085
on 10/8/07 1:59 am - henderson, NV
hey all how is everyone good i hope i was just wondering anyone ever go thru a time when all the did was cry? even the stupidest stuff that shouldnt make me cry does that seems to be me this week! dont know what to do...lol Anyways(puts on a big smile) how is everyone?
liz A.
on 10/8/07 2:12 am
just cry man. let it out. I will cry with you I always feel better afterwards...and sometimes it helps me sleep ((hugs))
RHONDA FROM KY
on 10/8/07 2:21 am - ALEXANDRIA, KY
not too often.. do you know why you may be crying.. happy..?? sad.. ?? anxiety.. ?? I would say just go with it.. try and find the reason and work it out. But if you find you just can't get any control.. then discuss with your doctor.. maybe hormone imbalance. I know my mom was crying alot recently, but us kids (me and my sister) gave her a reason too I had to fix that.. and now I think she's better.
Liz...Tulsa
on 10/8/07 3:18 am - Oklahoma City, OK
You're going through a lot of things right now; waiting on approval, BF far away, etc. It could very easily cause the blues. Figure out what is the primary thing causing the tears. Then cry and get it out of your life if you can. If you can't, then cry and go on with what you have. Personally, wellbutrin, lexapro, and xanax have worked well. I still cry at movies, bad times, etc. But, not like the idiot I used to act like.
LilTroysMom
on 10/8/07 3:18 am
Yes I have....although not recently. I hope you feel better soon *big hugs* If you need to talk, I think lots of us here are good listeners.
lippy81
on 10/8/07 4:39 am - Ottawa, IL
Its good to cry if that is the emotion you are feeling!! I had many days like that before surgery and still do if I am frustrated
AnnS
on 10/8/07 1:02 pm - Smyrna, GA
I am late on the advice as everyone else gave you wonderful advice....but just so you know....I am with you....I do it off and on and have to get my mind occupied on other things, happy things, things to look forward to and I spend more and more time praying....crying does help me sometimes....although today I cried and cried after releasing my last hug good bye to Nate today....the pain does not go away....we talked tonight that we have to work hard to be in the same city soon and it will help us both...so figuring out what it is making you sad, happy, etc...helps so you know what to focus your energy on....and like Jen said, we are here to listen....we have been there and are here for you... hang in there mandy!
Chris N.
on 10/8/07 9:02 pm
Hi Amanda, Yep, I get that way. Sometimes......I just cry. It's good to cry. It's good to feel emotion and just let it out. Bottling up our emotions is not good for us....that's when we start letting our emotions manifest in different ways. For me, for years I didn't show emotions and instead I ate my way up to 441 lbs. Now I see that it's okay to cry. It's okay to feel. BUT! If you feel comletely overwhelmed....like you just can't snap out of it. Like it's just more than you can handle...then you need to see a doctor. Depression is not something that can always be handled alone. There is 'feeling blue' once in a while and then there is clinical depression that requires medical intervention. If you're not sure which you are......talk to your doctor. Take care of yourself, Chris
mandy2085
on 10/8/07 9:41 pm - henderson, NV
thanks guys for such great advice i am better this morning luckily i have the m ost wonderful best friend and i have all of you and my family. i think i just am having one of those "female" times i dont get them often and it just attacked me good and hard yesterday i spent the better half of the morning crying then passed out...lol my bff was freaking out she had never seen me like that cause its been a good long while since i fell into "that" place you know anyways i am much better today or at least for now thank you guys so much...YOU GUYS ROCK!!!!!!!!!
Chris N.
on 10/8/07 9:47 pm
Hey Amanda, I'm glad you're feeling better. And yeah......gotta love it when those female hormones kick in and say "Yep, today you're gonna be a crying, sniveling mess just cuz I say so!" Chris
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