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Hello all, Sorry it's been awhile since I have been on but things have been crazy (what's new right?? ) Mom has been in the hospital since the end of May (the week we returned from our honeymoon to be exact). We almost lost her twice, she has double pneumonia, Arterior fribulation, a severe kidney and UTI infection. She is now in rehab at Maryville Healthcare and she is probably going to stay there on a permanent basis as she is just not able to go home and take care of herself, this makes it much better for me because she is just down the road so I am able to see her everyday and I know she is taken care of but I hate the thought of her being in a nursing home Martin and I are doing wonderful, God truly blessed me when Martin came into my life. I am still looking for a job, there is just nothing here so if you could keep a prayer in your heart for me to find something SOON it would be appreciated!! Congratulations to Annie, Lizzie and Jay and Mel on their weddings!! I wish we could have been there but know you were in our thoughts and I hope that your weddings were/is beautiful!!! IF I missed anyone please forgive!! Well thats a quick update for now, not sure when I will be on again but we love you all and miss you TERRIBLY!! Wanette

There is our little southern hostess with the mostess... Sorry to hear about your mom. I will be praying for her and for YOU also!

I am sorry to hear about your mom being in a nursing home but at least she is near you so you can visit and you can see to that she is being taken care of. I will keep you in my prayers...and hope that the job finds you soon!

thanks for the update Wanette.. I'm sorry to hear about your mother. She will be in my prayer.. and also for you to find that special job that is just waiting for YOU. You take care.. and give Martin a big ole' hug from Dan and Myself.. and don't forget yourself too love ya both

WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWw....so good to hear from you....you have been in my thoughts a lot I am so sorry about your mom...I was so glad to have met her....just know she is being taken care of well and you can see her daily....and that means the world to her I am sure..... I am so happy for you and Martin....God truly blessed him too!!!! I love the fact that I am married to the man of my dreams now but I need to start living in the same city....one day soon This weekend I am heading to be with him and we are counting down the days...... Please come back often....we miss you more! Lots of Love, Mrs. Nate

Hi Wanette... Good to see you.....Congrats to you and Martin.... You 2 are adorable. I am very sorry to hear about your Mom. Nursing homes can be good.....My suggestion is to make surprise visits often and at odd hours. So they know that you can come at any time. Also, be very verbal about your expectations of them, let them know how often you want her bathed, out for a walk, or whatever else.... Caregivers tend to act better when they know the family is 'watching' them. Prayers and best wishes, Jen