Went on my date

Well I went on my date.....this is the guy that I have been emailing with over a month....I am not one that is all about looks....but I was not attracted to him.....he has a lot going for him....and is a nice guy....he said he would call me next week...but I do not think I want to go out with him again....that is the hard part...I never know how to handle it...another hard part of dating is the let down...I really thought that I was really going to like this guy.....I think I will be single forever...... Kellee....the date was good...I always make the best of it just not the one for me.....so have you set up a coffee date yet?

Was the date tonight?

yes it was happy hour...early dinner.....

Well Cathy & I are proud that you are out there living life. It is sometimes hard to determine on a first date if the right one has just crossed your path, but often so easy to conclude when the wrong one has. Hey if it were simple and easy to find the right guy, what would Hollywood have to make movies about?

Just my opinion, but I think it takes more than one date to really get a good feel or what someone is like. It just seems to me if you liked him enough to email with him over a month that perhaps going out a couple more times might give you a chance to get to know him better. First dates usually are high anxiety, so we don't always put our best foot forward depsite our efforts. I vote for giving him a chance.

our first date was probably the best date i had ever had. it was perfect.

I want that.....

and you deserve it. although to be honest a LOT of things came together to make that night so perfect, i'll never know how it happened. It musta been fate.

Mel, You have a point however I fell in love with Cathy Massey when I first set eyes on her in the lobby of the Embassy Suites Hotel in St. Louis MO. on September 9th, 2005. There she was in her denim skirt, black blouse and knee high boots with a smile that took my breath away. It was simply a meeting between OH acquaintances that would eventually lead to a date with her for the rest of my life. Thanks for giving me a chance to re-live the moment.

when i first saw Mel i almost ran away in fear. I could not wrap my mind around the fact that i was about to try to talk to and entertain such a beautiful woman. My knees were shaking. I was so scared i couldn't think straight and had trouble finding my way around the airport to the proper baggage carousel. I thought there is no way she's ever going to feel comfortable around a guy like me (sloppy, still fat at the time, nervous, not a lot of dating experience etc.) but as soon as we touched... i came back down to earth and it was perfect and has never stopped.