Came to vent

I have to apologize ahead of time - I do not usually post to this forum but I thought it would be a safe place to come and vent my frustration. I am so sick of people telling others that their surgery didn't fail  them - they failed it!  What the h*** do they know?!? Unless you have had the experience or you're an expert you shouldn't be giving advice about it; or your d*** opinion on it for that matter. Personally, I have two major issues with my original surgery including severe nerve damage and a misconfiguration. It makes me very hot under the collar to see posts like that. It makes me sad to see a group of people all starting from the same place but forgetting where they've come from!
Thanks and best wishes for success,
Jen

Hi,

Yes, sometimes surgeries do fail, unfortunately.  But sometimes people sabotage their success too.  So it can go both ways.  I am sorry you are one of those who did not have a good surgery experience but understand that sometimes people can destroy their own success.  Did the surgery fail them? Yes, only because they chose to make the wrong choices and did everything in their power to continue on their destructive paths.  I hope your next experience goes better for you.

Thank you ; )