went to first consultation....
What HollyKim said. Most of the time, we see surgeons who don't do the DS working hard to talk people out of it, not because that's in the patient's best interest, but because they don't do the DS and don't want to lose a paying customer. You lucked out.
While the DS works great for people with all bmi's that qualify for bariatric surgery, it is especially valuable for people with higher bmi's. It has the best statistics of any bariatric surgery for percentage excess weight loss, for maintenance of that weight loss, and for resolution of almost all comorbidities. We see new people all the time with other operations who either never lost nearly enough weight, or who lost and gained back a large amount of weight after a few years. As hard as it is to face bariatric surgery once, it must be so much harder to face it twice.
You are getting good advice. I think it would have helped you greatly to speak with the surgeon personally, so that's what I would recommend as your next step, if at all possible.
Larra