How/what do you tell people?

Thank you all, as I've said previously it's nice to know I am not alone with wanting to keep this journey more personal.  I think it's true about the negativity, I don't want it or need it, it's a decision I am making for ME, no one else.

My Husband didn't quite understand either, he thought I was ashamed of the surgery, which is NOT the case, I told him I don't want the judgements.  His theory is "screw 'em" if they don't approve, I shouldn't care.  LOL, I wish I could be so thick skinned as he is.