Hibernation Mode (Advice for newbies)

I really, really needed to be reminded of this.

Maddie what a great post. I wish I could write as well as you do. You really nailed it.

Wow, thank you Maddie! This post is so helpful and such good timing for me since this is heading my way soon!

Mandy, I have to agree that with three littles, you are going to need a lot more help than you think. I am doing ok walking around and stuff... but I could not lift a baby and wouldn't even try, the way my tummy feels. I am also super emotional and cranky so that is something to think about too... your moods will be a bit crazy. Honestly it might be worth putting your surgery off until someone can come stay with you to help with the brunt of childcare for a while.