Too obese to clean house

 Aw, I remember those days.  My main motivation for having weight loss surgery was that I knew my weight was limiting my life.  I was unable to keep up with my job, house, family....I would spend weekends crashed on the couch, literally only going from my bed to the couch for days on end.  Excess weight takes a major toll on your body and your stamina.

Your life will change, and you're on the right path.  Hang in there.   I also found that in the months leading up to surgery I was more upset by my weight than I had ever been. I think that the anticipation puts the focus on our weight above all else.  

Sounds like you have a great time planned with your friend.  At the end of the day she'll remember the fun you had, not the condtion of your house.

So many of us have been there. I can't wait to hear your success story in a few months!