I agree- it is almost like an anchor when everything around you is going wrong- it's the one thing you can do to affirm you still want to live thru it.
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“If the person you are talking to doesn't appear to be listening, be patient. It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear.?
Winnie the Pooh