OT - feeling horrible about being overweight
I kinda touched on this subject tonight on my blog.
Be prepared to say something along those lines should the situation present itself again.
Assume she is offering the most awesome compliment and run with that.
Your husband and your child believe this and you should embrace that truth.
Or click on my name
DS SW 265 CW 120 5'7"
Hugs, and lots of support coming your way from Cali.
Did you tell the child that her comment wasn't kind, and that it hurt your feelings?
You can do that without being mean, and it would be a good thing for the child to know
how a careless comment can hurt someone.
A good time to teach.
You are a good person, and your husband loves you. He probably doesn't even notice
the things that you hate about yourself.
If the daughter doesn't know how her behaviour affects you, it might not be a bad thing
to gently tell her that you don't care to have photos taken of you without your permission.
And her mother's comments are just sour grapes.
Nolo Carborundum Illegitimatti (Don't let the b******s grind you down)
Hang in there, you'll be looking like a million bucks, then let the ex make her remarks.
Best wishes,