Hey Guys! I could really use your help! This guy I'm seeing is driving down from San Clemente on Tuesday evening to see me. He will be here around 6pm and has never been to San Diego. I was wondering if you guys could suggest something fun to do! I don't really want to do the typical dinner/movie date. He isn't 21 yet, so the whole downtown/bar thing is out. There seems to be a bunch of Halloween Themed events going on ... does anyone have any recommendations? Thanks so much!!! Steph

Hi Dennis! Well I just wanted to drop a line and say Hello! I am getting ready to have my surgery here soon.I am so excitied about starting my journey and was just looking for someone to talk too. Take Care, Melissa

That's a good question. I am 2 years and 3 months post op and have lost 230 lbs. I had the plastic surgery on my abdomen but nowhere else. I look good with my clothes on. Naked I look 90. I'm 51 and just started dating 6 months ago. I'm scared to death to get close to a man. Yet I'm lonely. I do not know what to do.

Hi! Dennis! I am about 5 months post op, and i am also enjoying life! it really is a change to see yourself thin, and it still shocks me. Sometimes when I walk past a mirror, i have to do a double take to make sure that it is really me. Life has become much more open and the possibilites are endless. Glad to hear that you to are enjoying life, and taking advantage of all the new opportunities available to you.

Hey Rick! I'm in the Dallas area also. I just had surgery (rny) on 9\7\05. Be happy to chat with you. ;)