Hi there, I am almost 2 years out (next month) and can pretty much get away with being a normal, healthy eater and person to most guys... but what I can't get away with is not explaining the circumferential scar I have from my LBL in July if we ever decide to move to the next level... so if I feel like someone may be around a while, I usually fess up pretty early out in dating. Usually when it comes up (likee when I order only SF drinks, pass up really sugary desserts, or tell them I dont drink soda or whatever. I have only had one guy really wig out about it... and he was obviously not someone I wanted to keep around. Do what you feel is comfortable for you. If you don't want to tell, don't. Good luck to you out there! xoxo.

Just in case any of you single ladies are from California, I thought I would share this here as well and not just the California Board. I have about 30 OH'ers RSVPd so far... feel free to email me with questions. Host: Marta Martinez/Anici Schultz Location: Home of Anici Schultz in VISALIA, CA (Email Marta for Directions/Evite) When: Saturday, January 21, 6:00pm Hey Ladies, That's right, what a combo... a Girl's ****tail evening, some fun toy/lingerie shopping and some of the rowdiest ladies I know! It doesn't get much better than this! So let me know who is in and who is out. Trust me, something tells me you won't want to miss this one! If you need a place to stay, shoot me an email for hotel info. Want to carpool? Let me know and I will try to hook you up with someone coming from your area. Lets make this a great turn out. We all need to wind down from the Holidays and maybe get a little riled up for Valentine's Day! We will provide the snacks/food and non alcoholic beverages and asking you provide the alcohol. Everyone will be drinking out of martini glasses.... no matter what you are drinking. ****tails and finger foods at 6pm, presentation will get underway at 7pm. xoxo. Marta & Anici

Well this is the first time this year I post here reply's I am sw florida Naples.. Yeah it is sad.. I want to date bbw's or ex-bbw's since I am a admirer.. don't think I am here to prey on anyone since i am also a post-op bhm well anyway hope to hear from you all soon.. Ruth you seem to be the closest Ive seen in this area.. well anyway ladies have a great day Henry Calderon Jr. kisses and hugs [email protected]

Hi Malenda..I wish you were down here in the sw florida area.. you are gorgeous.. well I am a post-op don't give up.. but hey either way I love bbw's.. well if you still would like a friend and who know's... xoxoxo Henry Calderon Jr. [email protected] you can reach me there or add me on yahoo if you like.. take care sweetie.

Okay Girls -- You need to travel up here -- in ski country!!! I'm in the Poconos and I'm having a blast!!! I am a born and bred jersey girl, have been up here for three years just getting FATTER -- last year this time I weighed my highest at 296!! WELL NO MORE!!!!! I am 3 months out and down 58 lbs (surgery weight 274), ever since I got into my size 14 jeans I decided I want to go dance. So I got on singlesnet.com and have found some very nice guys to go out with. Try it -- the response is great and connections are made pretty quickly. Just have some fun. If you need some places take a trip up here -- there's a nice crowd. I'm game for a girl's night -- drop me a line!!! Laura CC