Just Wondering??

I'm having my surgery on Tuesday March 1st...and was wondering...are you folks all post op and looking to date? Or are some of you pre-op? I'm newly single, and finished a 4 and 1/2 year relationship. I'm just wondering if I should try and date while I'm trying to get thinner? Or should I just wait until I get smaller to start again?? What would you do?? Soon to be Loosing - In- London ~ Lorrie (aka BluEyedVixen)

Hello Lorrie, I would suggest that you maybe wait until you have a significant weight loss and then get yourself out there and strut your stuff girl! This is what I did and it has worked out well for me. While you are working your tail off to try and lose the weight just think about all the hotties that are going to be staring at YOU!! Rich from Minnesota @goal -220 lbs

Hi Lorrie I just found this board and happy to see there are lots of singles people here per and post op. Now as for an answer to your post. I am post op about 7 weeks. And I have to say I can't worry about dating right now or shall I say I can't worry about some loser [because that all I seem to find] trying to mess with my head. Because he wants me to stay fat for his low self esteem issues. I think it's time for Lorrie to take little step back and take care of herself. Put herself first and treat herself as the goddess she is. Don't worry about the men the will come when your inner goddess comes out in the new and improve you. I hope that answer helps. God bless and be well. Your friend Maria