20/f/stockton, california

My name is Leah, I'm 20 years old, I live is the cental valley in california and am very much single.  I want to date but feel hesitant to do so.  my surgery is on 10/22/08.  I know that weight loss surgery is very contriversial and worry about finding a man to accept me post-op.  I want to find someone who will understand.  it would be a dream to find someone else who has also been through the process himself, but acceptance is all I really need.  if anyone out there is interested or knows someone who might be, hit me up!  I don't mean to sound desparate, just feeling lonely.