Wondering if anyone had this type of hernia surgery

Due to amistake by a dr who does rny and lap band surgery. I have to go out of state. To see a dr who does rare hernia surgery. Which will induce lifting the bladder and placeing mesh under it and having to sew all of my stomach muslces back together. I was wondering if any one had this type of surgery and how long it took to feel better How this happen I had surgery back in oct due to massive stomach pains for three weeks. So when open me up they found it was not anything to due with my rny surgery. But I had a jelly coating all over my stomach append. and my right lower colon which they had to remove. Three after that surgery I found a incision hernia due to the surgery. i had to wait four months to have it removed due to work and insurnace reason. They went in and meshed the upper have of the stomach and refused to due the lower half because of ll of the work it in tail Then three weeks after that surgery I saw his PA and complained of pain and she order a cat scan to see what was going on. But was made to call and tell me that he refused to sign the orders for work. And that I could go back to work. Three days back to work I called and complained of pain and throwing up in which they. Had me go for stat blood work and a stat cat scan. Only to find out that hernia was coming out of the mesh in the lower stomach ( yeah right 80,000.00 wasted on that mesh) Only to hear say he would be more  than willing to due the surgery as soon as I wanted him to. MY rny dr down state is floored by what happen in my home town and the only reason he did not due the first i=surgery is because i was unable to make the trip down state because they where not sure how life threaten it was. And the hernia surgery made have this dr due it because it was his that caused the the hernia. Ok so I found a wonderful dr down state who does rare hernias. and he informs me back here they just patch the tire. And now he has to go in and rebuild the whole car. Meaning he has to sew all of the six packmuslces back and place lift the bladder and place the meshwhere it was suppose to be in the first place and sew me back up again. Which will take the poor dr six hours or more to do