Complications worth the surgery?
Welcome! You are very smart to do your research before jumping into surgery. I had the DS 11/28/07 and wound up with a wound infection that lasted for about 2 1/2 months. I had home health care daily (and twice daily for a couple of weeks) to come and pack my incision. Although it was not a fun time for me (or my husband) it was well worth the complication. I didn't lose as much weight at first as some I am now on track and down 95 lbs in 7 months. Have you decided what type of WLS you want? I suggest you check out each of the boards to learn as much as you can about each procedure and then decide what is best for you. Good luck! Pat
Banded 12/12/07
Kaiser S. San Francisco
I had a lap-RNY 3 1/2 years ago and lost about 100 lbs. I still weigh about 250 lbs. and am starting to have some complications. I just had surgery for a bowel obstruction and I am sooooo scared that I will have furture complications. My advice is NOT to have the surgery. I am only 42 and am fearful that I won't be around, or have limited mobility, for my 5 and 7 year olds.
I know that it seems you will never lose the weight without the surgery, but try other things first.
Good luck!!!!
on 7/27/08 6:23 am - Woodbridge, VA
For me, the bottom line was that I was more afraid of staying the same, than I was of making a change.
The head has to change. follow up care is a big part of this. Support groups are wonderful. If you have children, be there and be part of their lives, as well as your own.
open RNY 07/09/2002
Life saving Revision 04/06/05
326/145/healthy
VIVA LA MEXICO 09/24/10 for plastics!!!
Excellent question!
I have had ELEVEN surgeries and 7 procedures in 3 years. I've had five bowel obstructions including being in ICU and an inch away from dying.
I now have a HUGE incisional hernia that will have to be repaired but I can't do it until I get my husband back to health with is likely to take a year or more (though he'll never fully recover).
All of this has been so difficult on my family. My children and husband have sufferred great trauma and they have shed many tears. Watching them suffer is more painful then everything I've been through. (My profiles has details.)
I ask myself every single day if it was worth it and I have yet to come to a definitive answer.
It's a hugely personal attempt at reconciliation.
I have two sides to my brain - a right side and a left side. The trouble is sometimes there is nothing left in the right side and nothing right in the left side.
Post-Op RNY 6.5 years
HW 252 GW 140 CW 140