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kelly_hope
on 3/26/11 11:22 am - Marysville, WA
Topic: In desperate need of prayer

Ok... several situations here, so I'll just jump in.

 

1. I've been my mom's caretaker every day 8-10 hours per day since her heart attack in November, then she broke her hip two weeks ago. I can't do it anymore. I have a bad back - just found out I need a spinal fusion surgery. Everything I do for her hurts so badly.

2. I have two kids at home who need me. They are 10 and 14. They care for themselves. On top of it though, they are home schooled. I have next to no time to school them! I do most of it over the phone and early early in the morning.

3. I miss my kids and my hubby.

4. Speaking of hubby, he just started the graveyard shift and he is sleeping when I leave in the morning and leaves as soon as I get home from my mom's.

I had planned to return back home to my family and what I need to do after I had wls. Until she broke her hip, she was well on her way to being able to at least partially care for herself. But then she broke her hip and now she can't do anything for herself. And she's not really trying hard either. But I still made it clear that after wls, I couldn't help. They are soooo dead set against a home nurse. 

I am two weeks away from ending my 3 month doc supervised diet and ready to move forward for approval and getting my surgery date. Then I get a call saying the insurance changed it's policy and now the diet needs to be 6 months long. I am devastated. 

On top of the ramifications of holding off my surgery, extending the diet, the heartbreak of not having it when I'd hoped.... I realized no I have no way out of helping my mother.

It sounds awful, I know it does. But I'm doing more and more damage to my spine. Even my neurosurgeon says I shouldn't be caring for her. But without the 'excuse' of wls, there is no way I'm going to be able to return to my family and care for them and care for me. I need to take care of my back. 

 

God has done some awesome stuff in our life and I'm praying more then ever, for mom, hubby, etc. I need help though. I'm freaking out. Please, please, pray.

 

Thank you.

 KELLY RNY  34yo 5'5" HW 288 SW 274 CW 188 GW 140
           
          


Patricia R.
on 3/26/11 2:12 am - Perry, MI
Topic: RE: Weekend Blessing
I know how it feels to be enslaved by debt.  At one point, I worked three jobs to try to pay down my debts.  My giving at church was almost nonexistant.  I hated my life, and my health was negatively impacted by the stress. 

I hope this week's messages have helped you in some way.

Hugs,
Trish
Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
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Patricia R.
on 3/26/11 2:06 am - Perry, MI
Topic: Weekend Blessing

 

March 26/27

Enslaved by Debt

Proverbs 22:7

Personal debt has skyrocketed in our Western culture. Easy credit, a desire for material goods, and an unwillingness to save and wait have led many people down the path of financial bondage. The Bible doesn’t forbid borrowing, but it clearly warns us of its negative consequences. Our verse today describes the borrower as the lender’s slave.

Every dollar you borrow costs you a measure of freedom. Your paycheck is no longer entirely yours; a part of it must be set aside to repay your creditor. As the interest adds up, the financial burden may necessitate longer working hours. For Christians, the obligation to repay debt oftentimes hinders the ability to give to
the Lord’s work or help people in need. Instead of getting the first part, God gets leftovers or nothing at all. 

The consequences of accumulating debtreach beyond monetary issues. The burden of mounting bills creates emotional and relational stress. In fact, financial problems are one of the leading causes of divorce. Even our relationship with the Lord is affected when we let our appetite for the world’s goods override our obedience to biblical principles. Although God promises to supply our needs, how often do we jump ahead of Him and provide for ourselves with “easy payment plans."

The next time you are tempted to charge a purchase that you really can’t afford, stop! Go home and ask the Lord if He wants you to have it. If He does, ask Him to provide it. Then wait. True freedom comes to those *****ly on the Lord’s promises instead of their credit cards.

Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
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Patricia R.
on 3/25/11 2:48 pm - Perry, MI
Topic: RE: Friday Prayer & Praise
I used to attend a knitting group, but could not continue when my back pain was at its worst, because sitting on kitchen chairs is not comfortable for me. 

Huge praise:  I got my dog back from my sister's.  I saw my podiatrist, and he is pleased with my progress.  He said the swelling is minimal and the stitches look good.  I am able to walk slowly, but with minimal pain.  My dog is happy to be home, and I am happy he is with me now.  I missed him terribly.

Prayer:  Please pray for my Mom, who has been sick for two weeks with some respiratory thing.  She waited till yesterday to go to the doctor's.  She has a bad heart, and has had pneumonia twice and for some dumb reason, she did not get a flu shot this year.  Her excuse is so lame.  She volunteers at a veterans hospital and overheard one of the nurses saying that she did not get a flu shot this year.  Then, she mentioned that my sister does not get it.  My sister is allergic to eggs, and the flu shot is an egg based concoction. 

I would also appreciate prayer concerning finding a part time job.  I have been sending my resume out, and have been waiting for one job to check my references for three months.

Hugs,
Trish
Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
96179

Patricia R.
on 3/25/11 2:34 pm - Perry, MI
Topic: RE: Friday Blessing
This is a difficult one for me.  After my divorce, I spent a lot of money on travel to see my kids, and shopping, all on charge cards.  I filed for bankruptcy several years ago, and had trouble making those payments.  I am out of bankruptcy, and trying to stave off the creditors with payment agreements.  I downsized my apartment over a year ago, to be able to pay my debts.  I no longer have credit cards, so everything is cash.  Like my alcoholism and eating disorder, shopping is an addiction. 

Hugs,
Trish
Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
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Hislady
on 3/25/11 9:34 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Friday Blessing
This is something I don't understand about some of the really right wing fundamental Christians, they seem to feel they can pick and choose what to pay the government. Myself I was raised that it is an honor to be able to pay taxes in this country of freedom!
Hislady
on 3/25/11 9:31 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: Friday Prayer & Praise
Well had a really good day today, started out going to my knitting group where we had a good old fashioned potluck, way too much good food! Then got all my other errands done and am now resting with my sore feet up. God is good, He always helps me have the strength to get my chores done especially when I ask Him to. Have a restful weekend all, God bless! Karen
Hislady
on 3/25/11 9:27 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Thursday P&P
So glad the pain is getting better, should continue now with the swelling going down. Hope you're ready for a game of hopscotch in no time!
Patricia R.
on 3/25/11 7:50 am - Perry, MI
Topic: Friday Blessing

 

March 25

Dealing with Debt

romans 13:1-8

Every citizen has the responsibility to submit to governmental authority. Obeying the laws of the land which do not contradict scriptural commands is an essential part of honoring the Lord. Verse 7 of today’s passage says, “Render to all what is due them." Just as we are obligated to pay our taxes, we’re also to repay all of our debts (v. 8).

The Lord expects anyone who borrows money to be diligent about making regular repayments. By withholding what is rightfully due, we are guilty of stealing from the lender. Not only that, but we also ruin our testimony for Christ. Since the offense of defaulting on a loan is serious, we need to be diligent about getting ourselves out of debt and staying out.

Perhaps this i****ting close to home. As daunting as the task of debt reduction may seem, you are not alone. God wants you to be financially free, and He will show you the way. However, His method is usually not a fast fix, but a slow and steady approach, which will also effectively train you to avoid future debt. Confess that you haven’t been a good steward of your resources, commit to making some sacrificial changes, and consistently work toward your goal. Then watch the Lord faithfully lead you out of debt.

Does a mountain of debt seem bigger to you than almighty God? If so, your focus is on your own inabilities instead of His faithfulness. For those who turn to the Lord in genuine repentance and surrender, He’ll supply the needed resources as well as the persistence to repay what is owed.

Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
96179

Patricia R.
on 3/24/11 11:06 am - Perry, MI
Topic: RE: Thursday P&P
Hi Karen,
I spent the day sleeping, which I needed big time.  I did not sleep much last night...pain and other stuff.

I have a praise...the pain is not as terrible as it has been.  It is still there, but it is bearable at worst.

Prayer request:  I see my surgeon Friday, for a post-op visit on the toe.  Pray my toe is healing and that I can get back to normal soon. 

Hugs,
Trish
Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
96179

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