...throwing my hat in the door...

Hello all...wouldn't blame y'all for not responding as I don't come through here much -despite having this forum on my list of "interests"- yet here I am seeking some advice, so here goes it... First, men I'm curious: If you're post-op with the excess skin issue, how do you deal with it in public situations. I enjoy the entire post-work out practice of dressing and grooming after hitting the whirlpool (sometimes) and sauna (everytime). I also enjoy chilling poolside/in the pool while on vacation and I must (for mental health purposes) put in some serious beachtime EVERY summer (yup, the whole bit: chairs, umbrella, cooler, picnic basket, magazines, binoculars, towels and tanning -there is no such thing to me as being "too brown"). The women can "cover-up" with one-peice suits and such but I'm unaware of similar -and comfortable but not dorky looking- items for men. Has it been an issue? How do you deal? (for all)...also about the excess skin, what efforts can be made to minimize it as an issue (short of plastic surgery)? I thought I remember seeing something somewhere about topical applications (cocoa butter? cremes?) Secondly, also for everyone: Any suggestions for blenders (brands?, type? retailers?) I was interested a small "one-cup" type for small quantities (I live alone) Any suggestions for drink tumblers/shakers? (and where to purchase, please!) for mixing protein drinks at home and at work (the gym has a pretty good juice/drink bar and they'll make up stuff upon request). If you too prefer to stay in "lurk" mode (as I typically do) PLEASE drop me an email response. Use the "email" or go direct: [email protected] (same address as the button) Thanks in advance for your help...I hope to hear from y'all. japii

Hi Japii. I am only 2 months post-op so I cannot comment about the skin. What I can say is I know I will have to have plastic surgery. As far as little blenders. There is this product that was on TV called the bullet ( I will confirm that with a friend of mine). It makes single serving smoothies etc. My friend really likes hers and she got it at Bed, Bath and Beyond. I think you can order it on TV as well. Kelly LAP RNY 11/30/04 365/304/???

Welcome, Yes, I am one of the lucky ones with little loose skin, but I do have a pretty large scar because of hernia surgery. I had hernia surgery a year after WLS. Doctor cut me from my chest to my groin and placed some mesh in there. As far as suggestions, I like to cover up with tank tops. They cover my scar but they allow the rest of my upper body to show. I think we must look at where we came from. Like Earl says, he feels like a Greek god now...I feel so much better now than I did at 345. I don't think the ladies really care about excess skin, women tend to be more into the personality.... while men seem to be more visual. Good Luck If that tank top suggestion does not work.... try wearing a tight Speedo swim suit...and the ladies eyes wont go above your waist. We all know that a man like your self has a big "package" and should be prould...to display it....just stay out of the cold water because of "shrinkage" factor.

The Magic Bullet! Yep! That is it! Thanks Earl. Now I think I might have to buy one. Kelly LAP RNY 11/30/04 365/304/???

That Magic Bullet looks very cool. Is it much smaller then a regular blender? I have a great blender at home but it would be nice to be able to carry something to work. Some of the protein I take with me doesnt always mix up well in just a shaker cup.

Hi! Just wanted to pop in and say welcome. I am Earl's wife...which I am sure you probably figured out from the postings! I am dealing with the skin issue right now. I think the best thing that has helped tighten mine up a little is the weight training. Unfortunately there is just some that won't go back, and surgery is the only option. I have a claim in right now and I am praying it goes through. Mine isn't horrible, I have seen worse, but the only way to correct what's left of mine is by surgical means. Well, at any rate! Welcome! Keep posting and I am with you on the summer time and tanning and just enjoying the sun. I love to lay out and just soak it up...I am missing it big time now. Take care, Valerie