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Rabidstoat
on 1/28/16 3:37 am
Topic: RE: A little concerned with recent attention

When I was 30 I lost a lot of weight, over 100 pounds, and ended up looking pretty good. And yeah, I suddenly went from being invisible to getting hit on by random guys. I wasn't married and had no significant other at the time but I still felt really uncomfortable, simply because I wasn't used to all the attention. It just really unsettled me, hard to explain why. I think it's because I've always been insecure, and it just made me suspicious when men started complimenting me for my looks and stranger started paying attention me.

HW: 380 SW: 351 CW: 295 GW: 135 -- Third goal 277

Chickenboob
on 1/27/16 1:41 pm - Rockland, Canada
Topic: A little concerned with recent attention

I am pretty shy by nature. I force myself to talk to people, I'm warm  and friendly once people get to know me, but i was always used to being an invisible wall of flesh.

As I have been losing the regain, I am beginning to draw male attention. Part of it is that I am losing everywhere but my boobs. Maybe I am giving off a vibe. I don't know. It's flattering and boosts my confidence, but it also makes me uncomfortable because I am used to only my husband thinking I am sexy. I feel bad that it make me feel good. Like I am being disloyal. I have had to tell  more than one guy that I am married (I don't wear a ring) and not a cheater.

Anyone else, experience the same sort of mixed feelings?

Thanks.

RNY 2011/07/26 HW 338; SW 301; LW 199; Starting over weight 255; CW 212; GOAL #1 lose regain back to 199 lbs!

peachpie
on 1/27/16 8:55 am - Philadelphia, PA
RNY on 04/28/15
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

Wow-- ok. I left mine to the default setting at first, and increased a tiny bit. I'm thinking of increasing it to 500 now.  

5'6.5" High weight:337 Lowest weight:193/31 BMI: Goal: 195-205/31-32 BMI

T Hagalicious Rebel
Brown

on 1/27/16 8:45 am - Brooklyn
VSG on 04/25/14
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

It's at 700. It used to be higher, but that was in the summer when it was much easier to get completed since it was warmer & more daylight.

No one surgery is better than the other, what works for one may not work for another. T-Rebel

https://fivedaymeattest.com/

peachpie
on 1/27/16 6:02 am - Philadelphia, PA
RNY on 04/28/15
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

Yes!! on the loss!!

 

I'm curious- what do you have the move goal set to for your apple watch? 

5'6.5" High weight:337 Lowest weight:193/31 BMI: Goal: 195-205/31-32 BMI

TrulyPhoenix
on 1/26/16 12:47 pm, edited 1/26/16 4:50 am - Calgary, Canada
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

Finally broke my stall!  I was bouncing around within a 3lb range for almost 2 months, but with my birthday and Christmas I was just happy not to gain.  Last week I decided to up my water from 80oz to 100oz minimum and voila... the weight just started to melt away!  I went from losing an average of 6lb a month (except the last two) to losing 7.2 lbs just this week!

High weight (2013): 449

Start weight (May 2/15): 431.2

Last week: 361.0

This week: 353.8

Next goal: 331.2 

My current goal is to lose 100 lbs in a year, I have no doubt that I'll exceed that as I still have 3 whole months to lost 22lbs :)

Chickenboob
on 1/26/16 10:19 am - Rockland, Canada
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

No change in my weight this week. Boo. But,  a huge change in my bust 1 whole inch and a small change in my hips of 1/4". Slow going, but it's going I guess. I have been waffling in the same area, so I am expecting a decent drop over the next two weeks, according to my pattern.

 

Highest weight: 338 lb

Jan 1 numbers: 220 lb; Bust: 43.75 inches; Waist: 39.5 inches; Hips: 47.75 inches

This week:

Weight: 217 (12 to go)

Bust: 42.75 (0.25 to go)

Waist: 37.5 ACHIEVED, resetting goal to 36 inches (that feel unreal to me lol) (1.5 to go)

Hips: 47.25(1.5 to go)

NEW short-term GOALS FOR Easter Sunday MARCH 27st.

Weight: 205; Bust: 42.5; Waist 38 inches revised to 36 inches on Jan 11, 2016; Hips: 45.75 inches

New Intermediate-term Goal: My mother's day gift to my self is One-derland

RNY 2011/07/26 HW 338; SW 301; LW 199; Starting over weight 255; CW 212; GOAL #1 lose regain back to 199 lbs!

Chickenboob
on 1/26/16 10:13 am - Rockland, Canada
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

Wow! Awesome!

 

RNY 2011/07/26 HW 338; SW 301; LW 199; Starting over weight 255; CW 212; GOAL #1 lose regain back to 199 lbs!

Chickenboob
on 1/26/16 10:13 am - Rockland, Canada
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

187? NICE!!! :)

 

RNY 2011/07/26 HW 338; SW 301; LW 199; Starting over weight 255; CW 212; GOAL #1 lose regain back to 199 lbs!

mute
on 1/26/16 8:32 am
RNY on 03/23/15
Topic: RE: Weekly Weigh In 1/25- 1/31

Feeling good this week! My broken finger is feeling better and I just ordered an under the desk elliptical for my office so I'm excited to get a tiny bit of exercise. Crossing my fingers I like it!

 

high weight: 377

last week: 237

this week; 233 I'm 71% to goal woo hoo!!!!

next goal: 225

Melinda

HW: 377 SW: 362 CW:131

TOTAL LOSS: 249 pounds

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