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Is it because it's metal? I also work in an industry where they don't want you to wear jewelry for safety reasons. Wearing something else that shows that you're off limits but is ok by your job is something to consider.
No one surgery is better than the other, what works for one may not work for another.
T-Rebel
My condolences on the loss of your mom. Glad you didn't turn to food to cope with what you're going thru. hugs 
No one surgery is better than the other, what works for one may not work for another. T-Rebel
I just say "thank you" when I receive a compliment. When I receive harassment, I ignore it. If someone else finds me attractive, it is a rush, but it definitely doesn't make me feel guilty - I know I have no interest in anyone else regardless of what they feel!
It's gross that you need to tell people you're married and not a cheater - seriously, "I'm not interested" or "no thank you" should be more than enough. :/
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)
HW 335
LW 233.6
TW 229.9
next goal: Onederland!!!
Fitness goal: 3 mile runs still I'm doing it-- just gotta grow comfortable with it-- everything in me wants to stop at 2.5 miles!
5'6.5" High weight:337 Lowest weight:193/31 BMI: Goal: 195-205/31-32 BMI
It's so funny you posted this - just yesterday I went to the grocery store and noticed more men looking at me than usual. I became immediately self-conscious (Thinking OMG are my pants falling off?!) then when at the checkout line and the guy behind me asked for my number after we were chatting, it dawned on me that perhaps I was being seen as a woman by people instead of a big obese thing. It boosted my self-confidence a little bit!
I also don't wear my wedding ring (not in the habit of it, plus it's now too big that it would fall off) and agree with others- if you want to avoid being hit on, perhaps a temporary ring, or getting a ring guard put on your wedding ring.
Regarding the mixed feelings (or feeling disloyal) - I can't relate to that. I would probably feel bad if I had actually GIVEN my number, or was checking guys out in that way... but you can't control what others do! Don't feel guilty - just take it as a compliment and let your ego grow a bit... we all could use an ego boost; especially coming from where we have. 
Lap-Band 2011 | DS Revision 9/28/15 | HW: 380 in 2011 | GW: 140
Blog: http://felicitywls.blogspot.com/ | Twitter: @FelicityQ13
Wait. Maybe this is some kind of weird NSV?
RNY 2011/07/26 HW 338; SW 301; LW 199; Starting over weight 255; CW 212; GOAL #1 lose regain back to 199 lbs!
I've never worn a ring hubby either. We both worked in industries where jewellery isn't allowed or can be harmful. So I just got out of the habit of wearing it. but It's true it doesn't fit.
RNY 2011/07/26 HW 338; SW 301; LW 199; Starting over weight 255; CW 212; GOAL #1 lose regain back to 199 lbs!
I am not in a workplace with men... so I don't get that kind of attention...but I have noticed men hold the door for me all the time now, even young men. I didn't get that MO.
It sounds like you are handling it well. I am assuming you aren't wearing your ring because it is too big. Maybe buy a costume jewelry one to wear for now. QVC and HSN have pretty good quality costume jewelry...take a look.
Cynthia 5'11" RNY 7/23/2014
Goal reached 17 months. 220lb Weight Loss
Plastic Surgery Dr. Joseph Michaels - LBL and Hernia Repair 2/29/16, Arm Lift, BL, 5/2/16, Leg Lift 7/25/16
#lifeisanadventure #fightthegoodfight #noregrets
Highest Weight: 350+
Program Start: 328
Surgery Weight: 299
Last Weigh: 180
This Week: 177
Had a lot going on with the loss of my mother so I am honestly glad I did not gain. Two lbs until I reach my personal goal, 11 lbs to my surgeons original goal, and 15 until his revised goal. I see him for my 9 mo follow up on the 18th and I would really like to make my goal! Focusing on myself right now to get through this rough time.
Six days on Optifast and what is, for me, an 1100 calorie diet. Down nine pounds!
The hardest thing with following the program is avoiding caffeine. It's not like I have to give it up, my doctor-given goal is no more than 2 cans of diet soda a day. Most days I double that. It's still less than I used to drink and I am drinking a ton more water, but it's something I'm trying to work on.
The other issue is getting in all 7 'mini meals' in a day. I tend to get six and a half in -- I'm supposed to do 6 products and a 150 calorie 'meat and green veggies' meal, and I tend to do 5 products and a 200-250 calorie meal.
HW: 380 SW: 351 CW: 295 GW: 135 -- Third goal 277
