Help me my daughter doesn't want me to have surgery

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on 5/12/20 9:53 am

Help me my daughter doesn't want me to have surgery, I weigh over 600lbs and my daughter says I should not have surgery, and I should just eat right and exercise.What should I tell that I need surgery to help me loss weight.

SuMari
on 9/10/20 3:39 pm

I think I posted to a similar thread in a different forum, but I hope your daughter realizes that this is for your health and as long as you have an experienced surgeon who knows what he/she is doing, AND you've undergone the proper classes/education to sustain a healthier lifestyle going forward, you are in good hands for success.

Have her go to classes with you if she is feeling uneasy so she can learn about the process along with you!

Tekish
on 9/17/20 1:59 pm
On May 12, 2020 at 4:53 PM Pacific Time, Aprilgetinghealth wrote:

Help me my daughter doesn't want me to have surgery, I weigh over 600lbs and my daughter says I should not have surgery, and I should just eat right and exercise.What should I tell that I need surgery to help me loss weight.

How old is your daughter? Seems like she's old enough to understand but refuses to.

If she lives with you, tell her she can get on board or get out.

If you live with her, tell her you are an adult, more or less, and are allowed to make your own decisions. You have supported her when she did stupid stuff, so now it's her turn.

If neither of those work, try profanity.

We don't need our kids permission to live our lives. They can help or expletive-off. Their choice.

Tek

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