Please stay active in the bariatric community

Laura in Texas
on 11/8/14 9:46 pm

There are a lot of people here under 2 years out. My plea to you is to PLEASE stay active in the bariatric community. Either here, support groups, SOMETHING. I have seen too many people in my 7 years here come and go. Some people who leave are busy living active lives and do not have time for us anymore but the majority think they have everything under control and then crash and burn. Do not let that happen to you!!

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Patty T.
on 11/9/14 3:49 am - Boalsburg, PA

Excellent post Laura. I hope that anyone who is struggling is not ashamed to reach out for support. During my long period of indecision, I see that people who continue to post regularly seem to stay on track much better. Partly accountability ("I want to be successful so I can post about it") but I think also that involvement with the WLS community is part of the total lifestyle shift that we need to be successful.

Reach out for help, encouragement and to pay it forward.

Gwen M.
on 11/9/14 9:09 am
VSG on 03/13/14

Good advice!

VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)

Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170

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Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 11/9/14 9:56 am - OH

Yes!

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

Lucky2talk2
on 11/10/14 3:13 pm - Renton, WA
This is so true to keep with your supports! I used to be here faithfully but find schedule is so much more packed. However pop in to read every so often. I do attend my local group faithfully every month! I find face to face group great for me! However I mention OH to people as it is a great tool for so many reasons!!

Great post Laura!
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Oxford Comma Hag
on 11/18/14 6:46 am

Too true. I don't always go to my local support group every month because I get tired of hearing about protein shakes and things pertaining to brand new post ops, but I'm here every day.

I fight badgers with spoons.

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selhard
on 11/18/14 2:58 pm - MN
RNY on 11/26/12

I can feel a difference now that the honeymoon period is winding down.  I take the warnings seriously.  Thank You.

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