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Well i finally have all of my appointments setup and will all be completed by july 12th then they are going to submit to my husbands insurance for approval... My primary denied as an exclusion... Is it normal to start getting nervous at this point? Im terrified that his insurance will deny....my mother in law keeps making mean comments that i better be careful that my flab is going to be bad like giant bat wings just comments like that...its weird she sounds nice for a sec then makes a mean comment the next lol i just need to be healthy im so tired of being tired i want to feel alive i have been over 250 pounds since i was probably 15 and now im 38 and weighing 375 i have never felt completely normal i dont believe a day in my entire life... I want to get this weight off so my mom and dad will stop worrying so much that they are going to outlive me...i just to get this off for alot of reasons...and i know that most of you if not all know exactly what im talking about..anyways im just feeling a little sad today

What you are feeling is absolutely normal. Don't lose hope waiting to hear an answer. One way or another you can figure out how to get this done.

It is completely normal to be nervous at this stage in the game. I will be praying for some positive results for you. It can be very taxing. Best of luck!

 

Monica

it is very normal to be nervous, and even more nervous waiting for the surgery 

I'm 5'6". I was 36 and 375 pounds when I had my VSG. I'm down 38 and weigh 152 pounds.

My policy had a hard exclusion. I self-paid. I couldn't afford it, but I found a way. It was less than the cost of a car. I paid cash for part of it and financed the rest.

Do it for yourself. You are worth it. Trust me, I cannot even begin to explain the life changes that I've undergone in the past two years. I would have this surgery every single year if I had to.

Me too. I saw it as a car. I used savings and a credit card from the credit union.