Posted on sex forum but nobody answered so maybe here?

So my husband and I have always had an active sex lfe, no matter the weight. And I am a lucky ***** cause it only takes me 5 minutes tops to achive my first ****** when we would have sexy time.

But my question for you is has your ability to ****** diminshed since surgery? We have noticed that the time it takes me to ****** now takes a MUCH longer amount of time. We're having more sex then we did even before, but I'm not having as easy of a time getting the big O....

Has anyone else experienced this or am I alone????....

I have not experienced this.

Sex...????? What's that....I think ive forgotten :-p

 

I have no idea - cant really answer your question but it could be hormonal/psychological or a combination - or it just might be a temporary thing and resolve on it's own.

 

Just keep enjoying all the sex for those of us not getting any!

Thanks for answering ladies. And ACB- I will keep enjoying & hope it is temporary!

Ugh, at least you can have one at all! 10 years of experience under my belt and never happens for me... depressinggggg!

I hope your mojo comes back soon!

You're right, I am lucky. I know other girls who don't get too experience them. It is just so different for me than normal I wondered if it could have been a side effect of surgery. And I hope soon it starts happening for you very regularly!!!!

LOL thanks! I appreciate it! I think it's all in my head... I get too worked up about it haha I can understand why you would be worried, but I hope you get your mojo back soon! I'm sure it will happen!

Me too!!!!! If there is a mojo fairy out there I hope she is reading this .

I asking the same question What is Sex and How do you have it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LOL

I wonder if, since our extra fat has so much more estrogen in it, that could have lead you to "have quicker "O"s" than now???