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on 4/4/13 1:45 pm
I will leave this on all forums! We need to come together. For a much more supportive group.
I really thought that once I came to this site I would have such a great support group close to home. BOY WAS I WRONG!. For those of you reading this in silence please come out and talk. For those of you reading that don't like to reply ...please do... We are all here for each other. There are many ways to stay private. Yet most let your fears or opinion,concerns, being known a fear to tell no one. No one needs to know who you are just let your fears, concerns, and/or knowledge known. We are all here for each other. Lets help one another out.
I have a huge and wonderful support network here from these forums and have met many of my friends in person. The more you participate, the more friends and supporters you will find. I see a lot of people who barely participate, dont post any real personal info/stories,etc and then complain because they dont feel like they get support. You gotta put it out there so people can get to know you!
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HW 420/ SW 335 /CW 200 85 lbs lost pre-op / 135 post op
~~~~Alison~~~~~
on 4/4/13 2:05 pm
Oh I have put it out there. I feel like if it pertains to them then, they will answer. I joined a forum to have support not criticism. EVERYONE here deserves the same respect as one another. yet I post things and get no answer and/or no response. I am a member in many other groups other than weight loss and this is the only one I don't have a supportive outcome with . I try hard to find out the ifs, and, doubts, yet I get no response. I guess it is in all of who you know and or who you like. (which is not what a forum is about)
hi im on here a few times a day and try to be supportive
some people just need to be yelled at , they ask you to be tough on them, others just need you to hold there hand
this surgery is a major life changer and we all need support in one way or an other , sometimes its to tell you its ok if you only lost 1 lb last month other times people need you to get you butt back on your plan
almost every one of use heavy weights and super heavy weight has a hard time staying on plan thats why most of us got this weigh , some have medical reasons for weight gain but most of use have a eating disorder and we all need help at times to deal with it
if you ever need someone to rant and rave with pm me and I will always answer in a few hours,i can also tell you your doing great if you are
hope this helps
on 4/4/13 4:09 pm
I would love your support. What I don't need is fake people given me fake accusations. This site is just so fake. I have lost all hope for it. I will try in the near future to open my own support group for us all that need it. [email protected] please spread this is my commitment to you. Lets get rid of the fake people and encourage the real to speak My email is open for all to join. If I get enough supporters I promise it will be nothing like this site
This deactivated member appears to be causing all sort of problems on the forums. Be careful, it appears she may be a troll. So if you post, be very careful.
That is so weird! What is the purpose of people doing that? Are they trying to start their own site or something and want other people to join?
KittyKarin :-) Starting weight: 362 / Surgery weight: 353 / Current weight: 190 (03/27/2017)