Anyone else notice?

wtpooh
on 12/5/09 1:02 pm - FL
I am not complaining about my progress.  But has anyone else noticed lightweights having some major WOW moments at just a few weeks out(In some cases really early).  I kind of feel frustrated when I think about how far I have to go before I experience some of the same WOWs.  Like dropping sizes, etc...I know it's part of the journey and it's not a race.  But somehow it is upsetting when I see this and those who say how horrible they look and how big at 250# etc, when I look forward to that day.  Or those that get to goal in 6-8 months.  I know everybody's journey is different, but come on already. 
      
Moj_ Patti
on 12/5/09 2:15 pm - Where the Jackalopes Roam, CA
That's why I post mostly on here.

Everybody's journey is different. But if you have 150+ pounds to lose rather than 75, it's a whole lot different.  We'd probably all qualify for the surgery based upon our BMIs alone.

Where else can you get excited about being able to:

Fit in a a pair of jeans (any brand)
Fit in a booth at any restaurant
Be able to drive in relative comfort because the seatbelt isn't maxed out and cutting off your circulation somewhere
Sit on any public toilet not located in the handicapped stall (with the bonus of not worrying about breaking the seat)

The list goes on and on.

And I will tell you, being SMO at Weigh****chers was far worse than OH. When someone is celebrating losing their 10% or making goal and they lost 14 pounds, it is hard to fake it for them.
One food makes you larger, and one food makes you small... 
YBAILEY
on 12/5/09 10:41 pm - Madison, TN

It is a relief to know someone else feels the same way I do sometimes I think I'm the only one who can't fit in a stall without the side of the wall touching me.  I cannot wait to be smaller I am just waiting for my insurance approval and i am on my way.  you guys on here give me hope.

Jobsies
on 12/6/09 12:11 am - Pitman, NJ

Or making goal after losing 20-25 pounds..drove me crazy...




14 pounds lost before surgery. My first ticker is when I hit onderland: this was my goal when I started on this journey.  I want to focus on that right now...once I get there I can reevaluate.

My second ticker is my dream goal. Even if I only visit there for a short time, it would be nice to see that number just once.  I am pretty sure I'll need plastics to hit this goal.

            
InkdSpEdTchr
on 12/5/09 5:44 pm
I know exactly what you mean! It's totally frustrating, but thankfully OH has this place for us. Just like Patti said- those lightweights can't understand what it's like to be super morbidly obese!! I'm totally competitive though and I can't wait to get into the low 200's, so I completly understand.

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HW390/SW340/CW 208/GW170
                   
  

             
  

Donna C.
on 12/5/09 11:54 pm
For sure I think we all know what you are saying.  Ditto what Patti said about sticking to mainly posting here.  I also did WW for two long stints in the past and yes, it is exceedingly frustrating to be "happy" for someone who got to goal after losing those "pesky" 14 pounds.  Hearing about how tragic their life was because they weighted a whopping 180 or something.  Having to lose a good 60 pounds or more before people seem to even notice you lost weight!!!

But here we can proudly proclaim our victories and know we are not alone. For example, at my heaviest I wore size 7X jeans and today I am sitting here wearing baggy 3X's.  I have a pair of 1X in my closet beckoning my name!  (Yes to save $ I make myself wear pants until they are falling off so I can do every other size.  I work at home so I can get away with looking like a bag lady for a while.) 

Friends are the family we choose for ourselves.

HW 491, BMI 70.4 *** SW 444, BMI 63.7 *** CW 364, BMI 52.5

 

       
Jobsies
on 12/6/09 12:09 am - Pitman, NJ
It does get old..sure.  I keep trying to focus on how far i've come, but I still have such a long way to go that it does make me want to scream sometimes. 

Many times I feel like I am never going to get to goal...but I am a lot closer than I was ever before...I can do so much more, buy smaller sizes..etc.

It's a longer road for us, but the journey is just as sweet.




14 pounds lost before surgery. My first ticker is when I hit onderland: this was my goal when I started on this journey.  I want to focus on that right now...once I get there I can reevaluate.

My second ticker is my dream goal. Even if I only visit there for a short time, it would be nice to see that number just once.  I am pretty sure I'll need plastics to hit this goal.

            
RubyEllen
on 12/6/09 12:59 am
There is a lady at work considering the band. She and I are the same height. She is STARTING at my goal weight. Cracks me up. She offered me her clothes and they are GOOD clothes, I said, "sure!" but it's hard for me to believe that I will ever weigh 200 lbs. We'll see.

The victories of living like "normal" people will be very sweet. I'd love to feel comfortable in a chair or be able to shop without breaking out in a sweat and having back pain. I think we will have a great appreciation for our health and the ease of movement. Being able to hop in a car and know the seatbelt will fit would be good too.
 Food is for sissies. REAL women exist on skim milk, protein powder, broth and air.....          
wtpooh
on 12/6/09 7:32 am - FL
I knew you huys would understand I am soo grateful for each and evvery one of you.  You will never know how much I appreciate you all!
      
Livelife2009
on 12/6/09 9:11 am

Everyone's responses have been helpful, I really am thankful to have this specific forum.  It's hard to look at what I still have to loose so I really try to just appreciate my days.

        
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