Denial: It ain't just a river in Egypt

Lisey
on 2/9/09 10:56 am - Milwaukee suburb, WI
"Diana Cox IS a Racist and a Lobbyist. See how she use the tern"Sistas" why couldn't say Back Women"

Ever hear of freedom of speech you racist pig?  I grew up VERY poor in a VERY AA neighborhood AND got called whitebread & other RACIST names EVERY ******G WEEK BY AAs. 

And do you know what?  MOST of my friends are black, not because it's something to hold up & say, "see look, I'm the good white girl, I'm not racist because I have a AA friend".  It's because 90% of the people I grew up with were black.  If I had grown up in the suburbs, then most my friends would be white b/c those would be the people I got to know, right?  Get it???? Just because someone says "Sistas" does NOT make them racist you ******g idiot - she's pissed AT YOU NOT AT THE BLACK RACE.

So, if 20% of the black people I spent my school days with called me OUTRIGHT RACIST names, then that means there's a ****LOAD of racist black people, right??????????????  Of course, I'm talking about WAY worse things than "sistas" here.  I've also experienced this as an adult - driving, walking, ******g grocery shopping - whenever I go home to the big city & stay at my mom's house who still lives in the hood, I GET CALLED RACIST NAMES & AM TOLD TO GET OUT.  WTF!  I'm ******g grocery shopping.  When I was in high school, I tried to get into a program for minority &/ or first-generation to go to college, poor white people & the black administer of the program specifically told me that while I qualify for the program, he would rather have all black people in the program.  How's that for ******g racist. 

I'm going WAAAY off topic here, but I BET my ass that you are one of those people that bury their head in the sand thinking that every ******G white person is a racist at the drop of a hat when the FACT is I have been put down, straight up told to GET OUT BECAUSE I'M WHITE & THEIR BLACK MORE TIMES THAN I COULD POSSIBLY SAY.  Oh & no, well of course, there's no such thing as a racist AA, right?  WRONG.  I've lived my life, not you.  Do try not to discount what I'm typing because it doesn't fit well with what you would prefer to believe.  When you are specifically called derogatory names, excluded from social gatherings & publically-funded opportunity programs, and told to get out b/c of the color of your skin, THAT's what racism is.  Despite getting **** every week for a couple of decades from AA specifically b/c I'm white, I KNOW FOR A FACT that MOST black people are not racist.  Do you know the same for white people? 

Pull your head out of the sand & get a ******g clue.  She said it because she does not like YOU.  ******G IDIOT.

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Kathy H.
on 2/9/09 1:40 pm - Kent, WA


*blink*

Wow.


Diana spent time helping *me* ... not with insurance, but talking through some stuff, offering assitance if I needed help explaining the surgery to someone from whom I expected resistance. Her approach may be a bit "direct" for you, but you are way the **** off base with your comments.

You're speaking out of the darkness of ignorance. And I don't give a shiny rat's ass what color you are.
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(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 3:32 am - San Jose, CA
Well, I did that for you because you're WHITE!  Aren't you?  Your avatar appears to be white ... oh damn, I didn't accidentally help someone I'm racially prejudiced against, did I?  If you aren't white, please forget everything helpful I might have told you, OK?
Amy Farrah Fowler
on 2/9/09 6:44 pm
ValueMe,
You have taken stupidity to a whole new level I've never seen on OH, and that's saying a lot for the likes of us *****member Jade and her clones.
While I'm not going to waste 2 seconds trying to reason with the unreasonable, I'm going to sit this one out, and have a laugh at your ridiculousness. Sorry you're incabable of learning anything, but at least your good for a laugh.
Andrea U.
on 2/9/09 10:18 pm - Wilson, NC
On February 9, 2009 at 5:49 PM Pacific Time, ValueMe wrote:
NOPE...I KNOW>>>Diana Cox IS a Racist and a Lobbyist. See how she use the tern"Sistas" why couldn't say Back Women. I know white folks don't lke to be called OUT for being Racist because some of you have Superiority Complexes. Diana Cox is a Racist and a Lobbyist...how do YOU know how she makes her money? And if you did, would You tell the truth.


Let people make up their OWN minds about what WLS they want. As long as you people continue to harrass people because they don't agree with you about DS, I will continue my crusade against the DS - WLS. When you stop, I will stop. Maybe You need to know about the person you are supporting>>>I don't see her Denying that she is a Lobbyist, in fact, she has not even denied she is a racist.



I will continue my crusade against the DS - WLS.



What a petty *****  You are going to tell everyone how horrible a potentially life-saving surgery is because you don't like one person?

Go ahead -- call me a racist.  I know you want to.
(deactivated member)
on 2/9/09 11:33 pm - Woodbridge, VA
I already tried bringing that up. She didn't respond. I think she knows she's in WAY over her head.
Laurie LOVES her DS
on 2/11/09 4:17 am - Southern, CA
"See how she use the tern"Sistas" why couldn't say Back Women"

What is a BACK woman?

PRE OPS ...  Want a surgery that has the least chance of long-term re-gain, is BEST at curing your Diabetes (98%+), removes much of the hunger hormone Ghrelin, NO DUMPING, NO MARGINAL ULCERS and NO STOMA / STRICTURES? CURIOUS WHY I CHOSE THE DS?  VISIT MY PROFILE.

carmeldip32
on 2/10/09 2:00 am - Brooklyn, NY
I don't get involed when there is beef on any board, but as a fellow DSer and black woman I must tell you I feel your wrong. Diana Cox has helped many of people, and after a time of answering the same questions over and over to the same person you to would tell this person to get a clue. We DSer are not rude, but I know I get tired of reading post asking if I smell. You need to stop and look deep inside yourself. Thank Diana for all your help

(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 2:12 am, edited 2/10/09 2:12 am - San Jose, CA
Thanks for your support, Carmel -- but of course, your words hold no value, because you are one of my "minions" according to her:

"Because I called you a racist and 2 people that you and your Lobbying efforts helped spoke up for you...they did not defend that Article. They also had the DS, so they had to support YOU! "

So, I guess she DE-values your view, and questions your ability to have an independent thought.  I hear she does that a LOT on the BAF forum as well, and people there are pretty sick of her too.

Just to clarify for anyone who has read this far, there were FOUR articles, not one, stating the racial differences in WLS outcomes.
(deactivated member)
on 2/10/09 3:02 am - Woodbridge, VA
On February 10, 2009 at 10:12 AM Pacific Time, DianaCox wrote: Just to clarify for anyone who has read this far, there were FOUR articles, not one, stating the racial differences in WLS outcomes.


Right, and they all pointed out that African American is an inferior ethnicity.

Oh, no, wait...ValueMeal is the ONLY one who ever said that, that's right!

There ARE certain physical/physiological differences between people with different heritage. That doesn't mean anyone is saying any one is better than the other. And studies on AVERAGES do not mean ALL results are the same--some do better, and some do worse.

And yet *sigh* this all falls on deaf ears...
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