oh no you didnt

Im ready to shoot my hubby ..
Why you may ask well  at the dinner after the memorial service yesterday he fixed himself a plateof pretzel bread sandwich,tater salad and cole slaw
well he sits it in front of me and walks off.damn i sip my water he comes back 10 minutes later and eats then fixs his dessert plate and leaves again this time its brownies and cookies calling my name ..
Finally he comes back with another plate of food and says oh i forgot about my desserts and i could have slapped him...
Last weekend at the fair he got a pretzel with cheese and says honey hold this i forgot my drink..
Then tonight he comes in and hands me a big red ..wth
I tell him hunny what the hell are you doing and he says i forgot..well i didnt.
His sister called me today and said she watched him yesterday and thought maybe he was trying to sabotage me, she said she couldnt have sit there like i did and not eat the food.well i could have got up and moved..
I told her my stomach doesnt want the stuff but my eyes and head do.
I think you all call them food pushers.
Do you all feel like your being sabotaged sometimes or are men really that unaware of what they are doing?
Oh by the way im not gonna shoot him i dont know where he keeps the bullets..

I had a good chuckle over the bullets...you are super funny :)

Is your DH overweight? Have you told him this bothers you? I am so sorry you have to go through this :( Maybe he is sabatoging you and maybe he feels intimidated? I am not sure...just wanted to give you some HUGS!!!

That would be very hard to watch..it really would be!!! You are a strong lady :)

I think maybe you are being sensitive. I mean I can't expect just becuase I have made these choices and changes that everyone around me is supposed to be weiry about it and walk around on eggshells, just will power I guess.

God love him he meant no harm he just wasnt thinking...
At home we eat the same things its only when we are out that we all have issues.
I eat before i leave home or take something with me...
I didnt expect anyones eating habits to change with mine but they did my boys have learned to eat alot healthier and make wiser choices...
I just thought it was funny because he is my biggest cheerleader and he didnt realize what he was doing...
My hubby has gained 19 lbs in the last 5 months....
I wanted to share with all of you..

It must be really difficult.  My head still wants all of that food too.  I do not have a husband so it is much easier for me, but I am going through a horrible divorce.  Sometimes when I am grocery shopping I just want to put it into my cart like the old days thinking I can still eat some of it. 

You were really fantastic for not eating any of it and having great willpower.  Personally I would have said something ......that probaly would not have been very nice!

Jennifer