SORTA BUMMED TODAY....

Hello to all,         I just wanted to check in and see what plans yall have for this weekend? I personally cant do alot but want to get out of the house so badly if for nothing but to ride somewhere lol.... It is a whole different deal sitting home because you want to and have to you know? I am especially bummed today because my twin Martha (evil one lol) is in the hospital and had to have major surgery (hysterectomy) and I cant be there. She has never had children because of this and that female wise and so my girls were her girls lol... When they couldnt get there way who do you think they called? Right.... there Nannie... So anyway I havent been able to be there for her and go help her any because heck, just can get around myself ok. I know she will need help when she gets home and all but she does have a great super hubby so cant get better than that I guess. I just feel so bad because our parents died when we were so young and we only had each other. She is my only sibling.. My daddy died when we were eight and moma died when we were fifteen so we only had each other to depend on. We have never even lived apart in different places till she remarried four years ago and moved to bulldawg country lol...Athens ga lol.. We even married cousins lol....So just whinnin today I guess because she has always been there for me and verse visa... We have already made a deal that as soon and we are both better we are gonna hit thrift stores in her area. She says they have great ones there. And boy am I naked when it comes to winter clothes this year... ugh... So at least have that to look forward to and love north ga when the trees are turning in the fall...Ok now.... Guess im through with my pity party for today.. And Im sure emotional surgery post-op aint helping any lol... So lets see what yalls weekend consists of.... Tired here watching the stupid cotton grow across the road lol...Hugs Marge

Marge Cheer up, I have a set of twin and you know for yourself that your sisters knows how you feel and she knows that if you could be their you would be their. 

It is understandable to feel as you do. But think how you would feel if it was the other way around. You would completely understand why your sister could not be with you. She loves you and you love her. It will all be okay. Don't be so hard on yourself. Focus on how much fun you guys are going to have hitting on all the stores so you don't have to be bare this winter. Hugs. Jo

OMG, having worked for CDC in Atlanta, I started laughing the minute you said, "Bulldog Country."  All I ever heard at meetings was, "Go UGA!" Athens isn't exactly next door to your part of the state, what the heck did she move up there for?  Sorry to hear about her surgery, and I'm sorry to hear you're hurting because you can't be there.  She understands, and I'll bet she's so happy for you and your tummy tuck that she isn't even thinking about the fact that you aren't able to be there to help her.  Besides, when she gets out of surgery, call her every few minutes and say, "Are you out of bed yet?" Not sure what I'm doing this weekend.  My sister's kids are coming next weekend, so she is having the carpets steam cleaned.  Not sure why, if I had house guests, the last thing I'd do is have the carpets cleaned, because I don't care what my guests think about my carpets!   (I'll bet Dunny would understand my sister, though!   )  I have to get out of the way while they are cleaning, so I'll figure out something to do.  Probably exercising, swimming, and either a drive or a movie. Smile, and if you get too bored, go pick some of that cotton and spin it so Janie will have some nice crochet thread!  If you were closer to CO, I'd come pick you up and we could go for a ride, just not one like Thelma and Louise!  Hugs, Kix

(Kix, your sister and I do think alike.) Marge - As for the weekend, I think I'll do more of the same - nothing.  Read, scrapbook.  Maybe see a movie. Walk and sip.   I haven't cleaned a thing in a month!  And the place looks it.  Your sister knows you love her.  I'm sorry you are sad, but even though I don't know you or her, I KNOW 100% certainly that your sister understands.  All the best, Jenn

Ohhhh, hugs sweetie

Pity parties are always allowed here, that's what everyone is here for! I imagine part of your mood is the after affects of surgery - that anesthesia can wreck havoc with our systems. So don't be too hard on yourself and I'm sure your sister knows who much you want to be there. that's the important part, she knows you love her and want the best for her. Love ya hon, hope the 'funk' goes away soon! pam