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What a month this has been...

gawump
on 3/29/07 3:49 am - Farmington, NM

Hello everybody,

Sorry I have not been on the forum much, but what a heck of a month this has been!  Between school, work, my medical issues, the problems my wife and I have had with our pregnancy, and my sister-in-law’s first child being born W/ complications… I have hardly had time to breathe.  Marcie is still bleeding, and we don’t know if her hematoma is shrinking, staying the same, or getting larger.  It certainly has not resolved itself.  We both try to remain optimistic, but worry always finds it way inside our minds. 

My sister-in-law, had her baby a week and a half ago, but there was a blockage in the baby’s intestine requiring surgery.  We ended up in Albuquerque for that procedure and mother and baby are still there.  The baby is doing ok, but still cannot feed on its own.  The intestines and stomach are not moving things through effectively yet.  We are hopeful they can return home early next week.

I am sill on track for my surgery in June, although I am finding it hard to loose the weight I am supposed to, especially spending so much time on the road trying to help with the situation in Albuquerque .  I have been going to a psychologist for a month or two now, trying to get myself mentally prepared to deal with the rapid changes coming my way.  Together we are exploring my eating, and how I use it emotionally and to find ways to process my emotions more positively.  I hope that we can figure something out!

Please pray form my wife and baby, my sister-in-law, and me…  I would like for everything to work out for all of us.

Richard I

 

A journey of a thousand steps begins with the first one

LAP RNY 06/25/2007

lrosenda
on 3/29/07 5:32 am - Magna, UT
Richard, I am sending all my best thoughts and wishes for you and your family.  It is good to hear you are seeing a therapist now about emotional eating.  Gastric bypass does not cure it.  It makes it hard to do for 6 or 9 months, then you can do it again.  I am about 45 lbs away from my goal.  I'm 22 months out since my surgery.  I've lost 150, but, haven't lost anything in about 7 months now.  I'm seeing a therapist now to try and deal with this.  I really want to take off the other 45 lbs and even if I can't, I just can't regain the weight! Anyway, just want you to know I understand the struggle. Lori
gawump
on 3/30/07 7:04 am - Farmington, NM

It is good to know that others deal with the same issues...  Thanks Richard I

A journey of a thousand steps begins with the first one

LAP RNY 06/25/2007

future former fat chick
on 3/29/07 9:36 pm - Baltimore, MD
You, your lovely wife and baby, and your family will remain in my prayers.  Hang in there, Bro. Hugs, Tracy

Jesus is so good to me;  I couldn't ask for a better friend, protector, leader, savior!

Jandell
on 3/30/07 1:31 am - Glendora, CA
Thoughts and prayers going out to you and the family!
Jan
I know I can, I know I can
gawump
on 3/30/07 7:05 am - Farmington, NM
Thank You Tracy! Richard I

A journey of a thousand steps begins with the first one

LAP RNY 06/25/2007

Sherry C.
on 3/30/07 7:29 pm - Plainview, TX
I just started posting today. I will of course keep you and your family in our prayers. May all the angels watch over ya'll.
                                   Highest/Surgery/Current/Goal              
        John   341/331/163/185            Sherry   345/338/201/165
        John 22 lbs below goal                   Sherry 47 lbs  till goal
 JOHN                                                               Sherry 122 inches lost
  
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