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Topic: RE: I just don't F #*@in get it :(
Those anecdotes are a big part of why so many of us feel as we do about our bodies. It helps us avoid returning to where we were. But, we have to keep in mind that people *****gain it all have underlying issues be they eating disorders or metabolic that lead them back to obesity. We each have to address our own demons. That's why I keep Overeaters Anonymous links in my siggy. Its one venue someone may need.
For a site on obesity, compulsive overeating is conspicuously missing as a topic of discussion. Mention of it is met with criticism and riddicule more stinging than in the normal population. Perhaps because of the self loathing it conjures up in many of us, We talk about a vague concept of surgery not fixing the head yet fear addressing the non physical issues on these boards.
When I first found oh it was a very different place. No pretense that difficulty meant you were not ready for surgery. No pretense that it was possible to overcome a lifetime of behavior in order to be succesful with wl. Wls alone was not the only focus although it was a valuable resource. Today, we pat each other on the back for success and criticise those who cheat and struggle rather than give everyone the support they need. Many of us maintain but are still silently fighting the lifelong obesity mindset.
We each have to seek out multiple avenues to get ourselves the resources we need. We can and will make this work because we know something is wrong and we are not hiding from it. We need to stop hiding it from each other.
I am so glad you posted this thread. So many feel the same way but are afraid to say it out loud. You have helped a lot of folks with this.
For a site on obesity, compulsive overeating is conspicuously missing as a topic of discussion. Mention of it is met with criticism and riddicule more stinging than in the normal population. Perhaps because of the self loathing it conjures up in many of us, We talk about a vague concept of surgery not fixing the head yet fear addressing the non physical issues on these boards.
When I first found oh it was a very different place. No pretense that difficulty meant you were not ready for surgery. No pretense that it was possible to overcome a lifetime of behavior in order to be succesful with wl. Wls alone was not the only focus although it was a valuable resource. Today, we pat each other on the back for success and criticise those who cheat and struggle rather than give everyone the support they need. Many of us maintain but are still silently fighting the lifelong obesity mindset.
We each have to seek out multiple avenues to get ourselves the resources we need. We can and will make this work because we know something is wrong and we are not hiding from it. We need to stop hiding it from each other.
I am so glad you posted this thread. So many feel the same way but are afraid to say it out loud. You have helped a lot of folks with this.
Topic: RE: ALL IN ALL.......I'M GOOD!!
Thank you so much Thicklin. It's an everyday intentional effort to keep it moving and make it work. Keeping that in the forefront, with the knowledge that the wls was no magic bullet, it's worked out in my favor thus far.
I wish you continued success with your program as well. I know you will reach every one of your goals!
JJ
I wish you continued success with your program as well. I know you will reach every one of your goals!
JJ
Topic: RE: ALL IN ALL.......I'M GOOD!!
Amen for second chances, Proof that as long as we are alive we have the opportunity to make change for the better. Even in areas like loosing the fat where most folks have to keep trying & trying to make it stick.
Congratulations to you. Keep on inspiring us. You look amazing beautiful!.
Congratulations to you. Keep on inspiring us. You look amazing beautiful!.
MSW Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation
Links: Are you a compulsive eater? for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time Overeaters Anonymous
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V'N MY RNY. WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT.
Topic: RE: life overhaul
Whooo Hooo, for wl progress! Glad all is going well. When we're happy we have so much more to offer the people we care about. Thanks for the update. Keep on doing what you're doing. Sticking to plan from the start will earn you the good habits you need when you hit the 'tweens' where slipping backwards becoms a real risk.
MSW Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation
Links: Are you a compulsive eater? for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time Overeaters Anonymous
LV'N MY RNY. WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT.
Topic: RE: ALL IN ALL.......I'M GOOD!!
HAPPY SURGIVERSARY JANICE!!!! 3 YRS OUT AND YOUR DOING YOUR THING! I LOVE READING YOUR POST AND ARTICLES. YOU ARE VERY KNOWLEDGABLE AND POSITIVE. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO 
HAPPY SURGIVERSARY JANICE!!!! 3 YRS OUT AND YOUR DOING YOUR THING! I LOVE READING YOUR POST AND ARTICLES. YOU ARE VERY KNOWLEDGABLE AND POSITIVE. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO 
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on 8/3/12 1:13 pm
on 8/3/12 1:13 pm
Topic: RE: life overhaul
Hi Brandy Lynn here glad to meet u ;) an thanks for all your help an post an best wishes on your journey
Topic: RE: Workout
Thanks everyone. I had to take a two day break from the gym. I couldn't sit or get up for nothing. My muscles were killing me. I feel much better today. Time to head back to the battlefield.
I am definitely going to try having a protein shake after I exercise. I hope it works.
Taking it one day at a time.
Topic: ALL IN ALL.......I'M GOOD!!
It's my 3 year surgiversary BAFam today......and all in all...........I'm good! My journey has been successful overall and I can't and won't complain. Like most sure there's some jiggly parts, and parts I'd rather just not look at some times.....(the girlz....
) .......But I'd rather be here where I am today than where I was 3 years ago at nearly 300 lbs. Thank you God for the opportunity to do it over and get it right. Thank you all here on BAF for the love and support over the years.
HAPPY 3 YEAR SURGIVERSARY TO ME!!...........
Janice
My update:
Beginning Weight: 292
Beginning Size: 22-24
Current Weight: 169
Current Size: 10
) .......But I'd rather be here where I am today than where I was 3 years ago at nearly 300 lbs. Thank you God for the opportunity to do it over and get it right. Thank you all here on BAF for the love and support over the years.HAPPY 3 YEAR SURGIVERSARY TO ME!!...........
Janice
My update:
Beginning Weight: 292
Beginning Size: 22-24
Current Weight: 169
Current Size: 10
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on 8/3/12 3:18 am
on 8/3/12 3:18 am
Topic: RE: I just don't F #*@in get it :(
Wow thanks ladies I need all the help I can get I wanna cry I see so many people who had surgery an gained a considerable amount back one girl I say didn't look like she had it at all :(
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