HATERS WANNA HATE!!!

Thicklin
on 9/21/12 5:35 am, edited 9/20/12 10:36 pm - TN
VSG on 04/23/12

I must be doing something right lol..Yes I got a hater and a very slow hater too. It finally came out "you must be feeling yourself since you lost some weight, but I liked you before when you was bigger" I'm like seriously!

I was a little thrown back at the comment and I vented with some of my other girlfriends about it. They all were like I wouldn't f** with her anymore. In my mind I think it might be beneficial to keep her in my back pocket, besides if I got haters then I might be doing something right! besides no one else said anything about me changing.

So here is my summary of it all..Was I truly a friend or was I that fat friend that made her feel good about herself when I was around. I'm started evaluating my relationship with her and keeping a close eye on any future friendships.

            
Sis'ta "T" Bone
on 9/21/12 7:00 am - Miami, FL
Hi Thicklin,

I've been MIA for a minute  (Ok, for a while) but I'm back on my grind. YES, Haters are gonna hate but use them to MOTIVATE! You'll be surprised at the comments you'll get while on your journey. Just keep it in stide and enjoy the ride!!!
Sis'ta Thick-Bone from Sunny So. FL
Believing that God's intentions are for us to prosper. (I Corr. 2:9)
    
Thicklin
on 9/21/12 8:50 pm - TN
VSG on 04/23/12
Hey she already got me motivated...lol im'ma keep her n my back pocket trust me. Thanks T Bone
            
LEE
on 9/21/12 4:55 pm
Give her ass something to really hate.  Make sure you are super cute around her with tight form fitting clothes.  Drive up up the wall.  lol
Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
Thicklin
on 9/21/12 8:52 pm - TN
VSG on 04/23/12
That's what probably got her ass hating now..u best 2 believe when I step out! I step 2 da fullest!
(deactivated member)
on 9/24/12 9:33 am
On September 21, 2012 at 5:35 AM Pacific Time, Thicklin wrote:

I must be doing something right lol..Yes I got a hater and a very slow hater too. It finally came out "you must be feeling yourself since you lost some weight, but I liked you before when you was bigger" I'm like seriously!

I was a little thrown back at the comment and I vented with some of my other girlfriends about it. They all were like I wouldn't f** with her anymore. In my mind I think it might be beneficial to keep her in my back pocket, besides if I got haters then I might be doing something right! besides no one else said anything about me changing.

So here is my summary of it all..Was I truly a friend or was I that fat friend that made her feel good about herself when I was around. I'm started evaluating my relationship with her and keeping a close eye on any future friendships.

 U ain't seen nothing yet u just wait 
Thicklin
on 9/24/12 4:46 am - TN
VSG on 04/23/12

Thats so funny to me..she kinda a new friend thats been around for 4 yrs and the other friends I do have is pretty much a select few. But one thing for sure I'll keep a close eye out for her and any others that want to slick try me!

            
MSW will not settle
on 9/24/12 1:33 pm
Keep doing what you need to do and let the haters line up, lol.  Hating is their little red wagon so let them pull it.  It is not your problem.  Enjoy feeling the luv! 

                   MSW   Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation  

 Links:  Are you a compulsive eater?  for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time  Overeaters Anonymous 

               LV'N MY RNY.  WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT. 

Thicklin
on 9/25/12 9:26 pm - TN
VSG on 04/23/12

Believe me you! I am enjoying the love and attention lol.

Blu-Diva
on 9/29/12 12:39 pm - Hamilton, Canada
 Just keep doing you, haters will always hate.
She should join the ride, it would of been easier.
Pat yourself on the back for all your hard word, you deserve it. Keep your eye on the prize.

Surgery date May 7 / 2012
Highest 312 lbs - Pre Op 297lbs - now 199 lbs
I know now that my location was never my destination.

   Blu-Diva      

 

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