I Hate My Body. It's my 16 Year Anniversary

LEE
on 4/4/12 12:17 am, edited 4/4/12 1:28 am

I woke up to balloons and gifts from my dear wife whom I love so much.  It makes 16 years for us and i'm so happy and excited for this day.

But like with everything else my weight puts a damper on it.  I stepped on the dam scale today and it says 204, i'm so sick of it.  I just gain weight for no dam reason even when i'm working out like crazy and eating right.  I swear it makes me want to throw it all to hell and eat like a fat chick all day.

I'm suppose to be flowing today, but with this menopause who ever knows when I will flow.  LOL.  But i'm not complaining, well maybe I am complaining about the dam hot flashes.  lol  But menopause sure don't help with weight loss.  DAMIT I'M DOOMED.

So on the agenda for our anniversary,  Becca is leaving school at 9:15 we are going to the gym and workout for a hour and then the celebration begins,  I don't know what she has planned but I know it's something good cause she said bring your camera.  :)

I just have to forget the stupid ass scale and enjoy my anniversary. 

Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
Thicklin
on 4/4/12 12:47 am - TN
VSG on 04/23/12
Congrats!!! 16 years is a milestone..make sure you post a pic or two and forget about that damn scale for a day and enjoy your wifey.
dstgirl2000
on 4/4/12 4:47 am
Congrats Lee and Becca!....Happy Anniversary!!........I wish you many, many more years of happiness!

I'll just add.........Enjoy your anniversary, and put all things weight related out of your mind for the evening and celebrate whats really important after it's all done.....and that is........You have each other to love!!....Weight be damned!!!

JJ
                        
(deactivated member)
on 4/4/12 9:36 am
 If udon't stop stressing an enjoy yourself u sound just like me at this point in our lives we just can't afford to Gain anymore so hold on to that enjoy when it's time to enjoy But we can't afford to GAIN ANY MORE AN THATS FOR REAL!! Happy anniversary !!
nieceb
on 4/4/12 10:19 pm - GA
Hi Lee menopause can put a damper in your day if you allow it. I would like to congradulate you and Becca on sixteen years, that is longer than most couples endure each other and to still be in love is awesome. When God places someone in my life I pray that it is a love like yours. Menopause is temporary false weight gain you just swell for a moment it is not your true weight. Have a happy and loving day Blessings to you. Thanks for your support.


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1Haute Diva
on 4/5/12 10:15 am - Fort Stewart, GA
RNY on 03/20/12
Happy anniversary!!! Hope you had a great day and that you didn't let the scale put a damper on your whole day.
- Shaw
       
Blu-Diva
on 4/7/12 11:57 am - Hamilton, Canada
Congratulations  

Surgery date May 7 / 2012
Highest 312 lbs - Pre Op 297lbs - now 199 lbs
I know now that my location was never my destination.

   Blu-Diva      

 

lovely2lqqat
on 4/8/12 11:15 am - harrisburg, PA
 Congrats! It sure is nice to see someone still in love after all those years! 

      
LEE
on 4/9/12 12:26 am
Thanks everyone for the Anniversary wishes.  It was very nice.
Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
MSW will not settle
on 4/25/12 4:06 am
Gotta luv that body because it is the only one you get!  Starvation  is possible for everyone so you will eventually find what works.  In the mean time no eating like a fat chick permitted. 

                   MSW   Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation  

 Links:  Are you a compulsive eater?  for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time  Overeaters Anonymous 

               LV'N MY RNY.  WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT. 

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