I think this Family may have a chance after all. WELL 2 OF MY SISTERS AT LEAST

My two oldest sisters took a huge stand and accepted me and Becca both. They told me how much they love me and told me if they had saw what happened at that family reunion when I was attacked they would have beat that ***** down.

Well I was afraid to see them and they made me come and Becca and we were over there until 2:30 this morning, and I have never felt more love,and they have loved Becca for years but now they really love her for the action she took when that ***** attacked me.

I have a lot of family and five other sisters who I now know care about me no matter what and will defend me, even when my mom defends my attacker. They went to bat for me and while my mom and my attacker thinks my soul is condemned to hell they need to search their own life and see how God feels about their Christian asses attacking me completely off guard. The thing that hurt the most is my mom went along with it.

But i'm better today because I now know that my sisters love me and I know my mom does too, and she just does not know how to deal with me but my sisters and time will fix that too.

But I know one thing, I will NEVER in my life attend another family reunion.

oh and get this kicker, the ***** that attacked me come find out her niece came out the very day she attacked me. IRONY IS A GREY HAIR ***** LOL....LOL

I've been lurking around and read you other post. Glad things are turning around for you both.

Thanks Lashaun

I know there is a long road ahead but at least I am starting to believe my family cares about me.

Its loathsome that folks purport to know the mind of God.  We are entitled to our own faith, beliefs, and opinions.  Where we'll each wind up is for our own personal one on one with God.  

How sad that people don't know that they can love and respect someone even if they don't agree.  How pathetic is that to treat disagreement as tantamount to hate. 

You went way above and way beyond to deal with your family.  I'm glad you have the support of your two sisters.  The rest can kick rocks. 

Marcia you are right it this was truly a matter of self importance and self righteousness that caused this attack, but my sisters now want to hunt this girl down and string her up. The are all pisted off and it is a great thing.

I co-sign!!

Kinda thought the issues from your family went deeper than weight. They were just using that as a nice nasty way to attack you. 
In all honesty I have a hard time accepting the lifestyles my sons have chosen.  So far, it differs greatly from how they were raised.  However I've never disrespected my sons or their baby's mommas.  God gave us all free will, sometimes as parents we don't acknowledge it with our children.  At my DH's family reunions I get attacked, so I wear my tight underwear to keep my loins girded in preparation for the battle.  Their attack on me is not because of my weight either but it does come up. 
Z

Well the thing is it was my immediate family that was the ones calling me fat. When I stepped out of the car to day two of the rue ion my sister walks up does not say hi or even hug me, but says. I got skinny and you who'll is fat or something close to that.

The attack made everyone forget about calling me fat and made them go I to protection mode.